more proposed changes that I don't think are a good idea
For me, if I'd like to share my opinion, the best thing for me to do is write it up quickly and then go back to edit for tone. For example, if I've said:
Idea X is really a bad idea because [Consequence Y I can foresee]I'd quickly edit it to be non-accusatory and/or judgemental (iow, "you have had a bad idea" -- the word "bad" usually results in defensiveness in humans) and say instead:
I feel concerned about Idea X, because I imagine Consequence Y might be likely. What do you think?Etc.
Note it is about "I statement". I feel concern, I imagine...and still expressing respect for others' thoughts.
Basically, imo, this would be worth doing if you like the people and would like to remain open to the possibility of it becoming a good thing in your life to know them. If you don't feel that way, then as Amber said, I'd bail.
Hope that helps.
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