Lundy Bancroft:Why Does He DO That? Inside the minds of

[write]

angry or controlling men.

Fantastic book for understanding how abuse issues build over time and for helping a woman regain HER reality & voice.

[WarriorGirl]

I CANNOT RECOMMEND THIS BOOK HIGHLY ENOUGH AS MY FRIEND HERE SUGGESTS...BUT I WARN YOU...oh my Gosh do I ever warn you this book is hard to be alone with once you realize the game...the things you lived through...YOU KNEW THERE WAS SOMETHING WRONG! Read this book!!!!

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because Bancroft does not pathologise victims of abuse and assign them to some half-assed victim culture or mentality.

He has total respect for women as equal humans.

The depth of his knowledge & experience is astounding, and to have found the words to walk you through it...

Best money I ever spent, every woman should read this book, it's a most empowering experience.