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Won attorney fees in custody trial
lighter:
It's been a long road, but we finally won our attorney fees on top of the Judgement in the case.
The gave us pretty much every penny that could be given in the "interest of justice."
Almost certainly the IL's will appeal, and it's unclear what happens at that point.....
typically when they win appeals things shoot right back to the Judge that dismissed their case in the first place.
I'm told perhaps things could end up in the Supreme Court, but not sure how that would work, or why.
So, at some point it's possible IL's will be compelled to comply with this latest order, but it's also possible they'll stop filing new cases if they have to pay our fees going forward....
no payoff outside of emotional harm they do, which is enough for disordered people with unlimited resources, IME.
That's my update. At some point I want to share my story on this board, along with the biggest lessons, to help people dealing with psychopaths, children, and the legal system.
When I started this journey I mistakenly believed I was dealing with an N, and I made mistakes I wouldn't have made had I known what I was dealing with.
Lighter
Twoapenny:
Lighter, I'm so glad you've won this round and really hope that they don't appeal. It's time to close this down, I'm sure. But I know what you mean about knowing they're likely to do it anyway, I'm just hoping they'll leave things alone now. How are you feeling? Relieved or does it still feel like there's more to do? Hoping things settle for you soon.
Tup xx
lighter:
Hi Tupp:
I'm feeling a bit demoralized, really.
The gifted pd's posturing as victims while chewing up their victims using the courts as a club, not caring how badly they chew up the children, who tell masterful lies in a very plausible manner while accusing the victims of what they themselves are perpetrating have taken up too much of my time, and have booked too much of my future.
::shaking::
We win every case, Tupp.
When does it end?
Lighter
Hopalong:
I can truly relate, word for word, to that description, Lighter.
My brother. Exactly. And his harm to my child, counted in the later collapse of our mini-family.
Very
hard
to
forgive
But time will pass and wise boundaries will hold and letting go will eventually be possible for you.
Kudos on the relief about the fees. I hope it stops here.
love
Hops
Twoapenny:
--- Quote from: lighter on June 04, 2013, 07:08:38 PM ---Hi Tupp:
I'm feeling a bit demoralized, really.
The gifted pd's posturing as victims while chewing up their victims using the courts as a club, not caring how badly they chew up the children, who tell masterful lies in a very plausible manner while accusing the victims of what they themselves are perpetrating have taken up too much of my time, and have booked too much of my future.
::shaking::
We win every case, Tupp.
When does it end?
Lighter
--- End quote ---
Ah, Lighter, I'm sorry to hear that. I know what you mean and where you're coming from. It's hard playing by the rules when the people you're playing against don't. I've got to a point with our situation where I need to let it lie; like you, they've taken up too much of my time and it could go on indefinitely.
I'm looking up to the Universe and asking that they let you be, now, enough is enough and you should be enjoying your kids and the nice people you have in your life. I hope it ends soon and that this becomes a memory and nothing more.
(((((((((((((((((((((Lighter)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
Love Tupp xx
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