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Missing My Dad

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sunblue:
Thank you all for your kind comments and good advice. I am having a difficult time dealing with the deep loss and grief. I try to hold onto the fact that he didn't suffer in his passing. It was peaceful though sudden and devastating for me who was with him. I am deep in mourning and thus am crying a lot. I am also busy handling details and comforting my N mom. Not surprisingly she has not once offered to comfort me when I fall apart in tears. So cold.

I feel completely alone now. He was the center of my life even though he was completely co-dependent on my mom. He was such a sweet man with a good heart. I really don't know how I can move on from this yet I know everyone deals with this. I just desperately miss him. Thanks for letting me vent.

Hopalong:
((((((((((((Sunblue))))))))))))

Your good father
fathered
a good daughter

Hops

Ales2:
(((((((((((((((Sunblue))))))))))))))))

Im very sorry for your loss Sunblue. I hope you are surrounded by other loving and caring people who can help see you through your grief. Its tough, be sure to reach out if you need help.

All the best to you,
Ales2

Gaining Strength:
Sun blue - don't put pressure on yourself to move on.  It isn't time for you if there even were such a thing a "time for grieving."  Grief has its own way of being in control.  Ithe mourning period is exhausting but your being has taken a great loss.  Think of how long it would take to recuperate if you had been hit by a Mac truck and survived.  Because that is what your emotions have been through.  You wouldn't expect someone hit by a truck to move on so quickly and so be kind to yourself while your grief is so deep.  It will lessen. It will not last without relief.  Be patient and kind to yourself. 

My heart is with you in your grief. - GS

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