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Izzy_*now*:
((((((((((((lighter)))))))))))))

I have been so waiting to hear from you and all. It appears you (your mother, God Bless Her) have dealt with both ends of the scale re Hospice Care. That is my biggest fear, as it takes ME all day to look after myself. Who is going to spend all day with me..... (just sayin`, as we never know what is ahead.)

Is your Mom comfortable, or in pain, or ½-way in between.

Thanks for the info so I can tell Karla.

I don`t expect to pop off tomorrow, but right now, the end is what is ahead for me, while I deal with the Wound Care Nurses, therapy and all my work being done for me.

The unknown is so unknown, but does your mom have certain beliefs and expectations ?

Love
iZZY

mudpuppy:
If your mother is talking and laughing and eating and drinking she may very well have more than only weeks left.
God bless her. And her family.

mud

lighter:
Update....

my beautiful beloved mother passed away last week, and she did it her way, in her own time.

I believe I can honestly say...........

 I have no regrets about her passing. 

We had a celebration of her life, which was lovely and healing in ways that weren't clear until we were in the  midst of planning/celebrating/enjoying fellowship based on her joy, not our loss.

Lighter

 

Hopalong:
Oh (((((((((((((((Lighter))))))))))))).
I am glad you have no regrets and that there were those
moments of joy and beauty in the farewell.

But I am so sorry you have lost her.

Love to you,
Hops

lighter:
Thanks for all the support......

truly this is a board of Amazons, and honorable Amazon Mud, of course.

I was reflecting on all the relationships I've lost, not just the 5 or so this year, but all of them, and it occurred to me that the ones that are gone, bc of pd dysfunction, and not bc of death or a long distance move or illness.....

are even harder make peace with.

Esp if it's bc the pd is toxic, or stalking us, or manufacturing chaos and crisis bc that's what they do.

I don't want to pretend they aren't any more.   

The next step is figuring out how to block out the stalkers, and the chaos/crisis makers.

Now,
when I pray to GOd to help me help myself, and see the truth more clearly,
I pray to my mother, and all the friends and loved one who have passed on.

It comforts me.

In this next phase of figuring out how to survive pd's, I hope they're listening.

Lighter

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