Well you're out there, and trying.
I agree with garbonzo.... too early perhaps to share very intimate details, and........
is his name really a deal breaker if he's nice, respectful, and a good match for you?
Really?
Maybe it is.... I can't say,bc I don't have to live with your decisions, and you do. You get to say, and that's the way it has to be.
When I have similar questions, I like to ask myself questions then wait to see how it makes me feel.... sad and heavy or light and OK?
YOu may sense red flags you aren't able to put your finger on with this guy, and the name just cinches it, or......
you just can't have a constant trigger like that name in your life, you just can't,a dn that's OK too.
You do what feels light, and what you can make peace with, Tupp.
Take care of yourself.
I'm glad you're out in the world, open to receiving more joy.
Lighter