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sKePTiKal:
A rant doesn't figure into the accounting, Hops... that silly calculator of "stuff"... it is letting the chips fall where they may! and getting on with YOU.

lighter:
With music coming up on another thread, I wanted to bring a little here.

I can't play the ukulele, but this is one of the songs my youngest dd learned to play by Amanda Palmer.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ni6qaNUcd9E

Lighter

Hopalong:
Lighter, thank you.
I re-read the She Let Go piece and it was wonderful.

A keeper.

Thanks very much,
Hops

Twoapenny:
Hops,

Just catching up as I haven't had internet access at home for a while so haven't been able to get online.  Didn't know about the job situation changing like this - I'm sure it's all in another thread so will find out what's been going on as I read up!  But am sorry to find that things haven't worked out so well and that things are a struggle again now.  Amazing advice and comments from everyone - this place really is an oasis of calm and sanity in an increasingly crazy world.  Can only offer you my understanding and best wishes from my heart (and, not for the first time, wish I knew you in the real world because I'd give you the biggest hug and take care of 'stuff' for you for a while so you could take to your bed and call the world an arsehole :) ).  I do think Skep is spot on; it is alright to give up every now and again and hide under the duvet, but equally I know how much I start to fret when I get to that stage and how uncomfortable it can feel - always a contradiction!  I am hoping this path levels out a bit soon and becomes a bit more comfortable for you to be on xxx

Meh:
free association -- after reading this thread I googled "shame of being depressed" because I was thinking of how it sucks that somehow people are not allowed to have down points in life, like we all have to be up up up and on the go and cheery and beaming and performing at maximum capacity, I wish I could just have a reprieve... anyhow I randomly came across an article that states that some people might have chronic shame rather than actual depression a concept that I have never even considered really ever, I mean maybe I considered it but not in those exact words, almost every time I come to this board I end up leaving it with some sort of new angle.... anyhow not diagnosing anybody, just thought it was interesting, I will just post it under Anything

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