I'm so so sorry, ((((Bettyanne))))
Doctors don't know how patients will react to these drugs.
They guess. The drugs create more symptoms, then more drugs are prescribed. It always felt like being blindsided when a new symptom popped up unexpectedly.
I think you're doing amazingly well, btw. Anyone would want to scream, and fight this situation. Feeling blindsided, and angry, and overwhelmed is what we feel when our loved ones are struggling.
When the anxiety overwhelms you... maybe go to a private space... ladies room, another floor waiting room at the hospital, and just push on a wall or doorjamb with all you have.... push and breathe in slowly through your nose... fill your lungs from the bottom up.... pooch out your stomach.... then exhale slowly through your mouth. I mean this quite literally. Repeat till you feel more centered and calm. It's OK to cry, and despair, and shake your fists. You'll come back to center again.
Be super kind to yourself. You deserve compassion, and care too.
We're sending you strength, and bravery from the board. If it would help, I'd help you push a wall in, but it's just pushing to help you manage your stress (so you're more responsive for Bill, your sons, and yourself.)
Two years is a long time to fight so very hard. Check yourself.... how are you feeling? I'm guessing your Vitamin D is low, and maybe B vitamins too. Drink water.... cut back on sugar if you can... and maybe foods that make you feel worse.
Even if it's not OK... it's going to be OK, ((Bettyanne.))
Lighter