Oh, Hops.
I hope you can enjoy his enjoyment in you. I hope his amazement, and attraction makes you feel amazing, and attractive. Powerful, and seductive. In control, and grateful that he's so attracted to you, for so many things, in so many ways. You're well rounded, intellectual, matched so well in so many ways.... this male/female magnet is a small part of a bigger picture... not THE PICTURE.
In other words... I hope you can have a glass or two of wine, get into something that makes you feel powerful/at your best, then let him discover more amazing things about you, for surely he'll be amazed no matter what you do. (But he can't whine or whatever it is that drives you nuts.) He just can't.
::shaking head:: Both Ts need to go over this, with both of you guys, and it needs to be something that's not happening anywhere AROUND intimacy. Appears he's surfing pretty good right now.
I'm in favor of undies on, making out like teenagers for a bit, myself. Agreement up front, lots of in small steps. Maybe you've already climbed those smaller hills in Paris?
Worst case scenario, take a nerve pill, and try to be amazed at his amazement.... stay curious, and nonjudgmental as you can. You might be super surprised in a happy way!
Lighter