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lighter:
Woo boy, Hops.
:: Hot tear rolls down L cheek::.
There's no room for new connection if we fill ourselves with other connections. M will be fine.
You have to be true to yourself. M won't understand, unfortunately. It's one reason he's not enough.
Lighter
Hopalong:
Thank you.
And thank you!
(And no tears for me, you're feeling enough grief for others at the mo'...I'll be fine!)
hugs
Hops
lighter:
::offering young Hops mug of 🥦 soup::
I selected a round, lovely blue hand made mug and big round soup spoon for you.
Soup.
No more tears.
Promise.
Lighter
Twoapenny:
Did we establish whether Buck has a brother or cousin that we can organise an introduction with? Aw, Hopsie, I do get the Covid partner thing and the need for connection, plus the long held dreams of love, being loved, being part of a family and so on. I do get all of that, really. But equally I'm still hoping that you meet some lovely bohemian poet or musician or someone like that, someone who looks at what's around him and sees beauty and joy and a sense of connection. Rather than someone who needs to constantly impress and dominate, however politely or intelligently they do that. Do they have dating sites for poets? Or a 'match my Pooch' site, where the dogs get to choose who they hang out with :) I'm hoping that he's out there somewhere for you and I hope he gets his bum into gear and shows up soon! xx
sKePTiKal:
LOLOLOL. Tupp, I love how your mind works.
No, B has the same kind of FOO that we do. There isn't anyone he would vouch for, in the taking care of a relationship realm. He makes no grand claims for himself, either. He is what he is and it's been a struggle to be that. I understand. I don't have lofty expectations. Just simple ones. And he can do that. So, so far.... so good.
(It FEELS however, a lot better than that. There's kinda been a meeting of the minds about "life is what you make it" and since we're both "makers" after a fashion, it works.)
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