While I was at the lake the girls were having troube with a tree limb breaking a back windshield, losing keys (typically; that DD loses NOTHING and is super responsible wth all her belongings) but there's been some upheaval leading ot upset for her over a new man she's seeing.... adorable, great sense of humor and DD really has fun with him, which is where the upset is coming from......
there's people who don't like the idea of her dating this cutie guy (or any guy for that matter.)
A trusted "friend's" brain broke and he started fabricating easily disproved lies about the guy DD is dating.
To make things worse, this is someone DD considered a father figure (FF) which adds a lot more upset for her. DD is trying to form a response. It's not good, bc they run in the same friend group and likely will create trouble...can't be avoided, IME. It's very sad women are expected to absorb trauma so they, and the entire social group, aren't punished and traumatized over and over again. Hate that, I do.
We've been enjoying a big puzzle together. DD doesn't need anyone telling her what to do and plenty of people are. We played the movie SOMETHING ABOUT MARY in the background over breakfast and it was funny, bc it's SO similar to her experience right now. It was eggs bennies with bacon and ham... the bacon was better. Much discussion over having new guy over for brunch... he can make real hollondais, bc he cares, and we're looking forward to it. It's so refreshing when everyone in the room shares similar sences of humor... or has one, even.
I really like the Magda character in SAM movie.
For dinner, we enjoyed potstickers wrapped in crunchy lettuce leafs with sweet chili sauce, lime and herbs for dinner.... yummy. I grabbed a bottle of wine from the fridge bc it's been sitting in the way for a week... won't get any fresher and DDs not cooking aything with wine lately. Leftover blueberries and apple went into the glass too. I'm breathing into this moment, enjoying every bite and sip as I recover from a sneaky hate spiral over surprise sub freezing temperatures on today's walks. I've been leaning into Spring and the warm sunny days I didn't think would end. Darn.
The pug's been patient and calm lately. She's in her bed, gently snore next to me now.
Lots of limbs down in the neighborhood. I think tree guys could stay busy for a month with all the old trees I rarely see get attention around here. I usually hire someone before I go away for a while, out of fear and anxiety over leaving girls to their own devices for weeks at a time. I think it's time to call the tree guys again.
Lighter