do you ever feel like you were to blame?

[Anonymous]

This is bluetopaz as guest because I keep getting the error message "you cannot post so soon after you last message- please try again later".  Even though the last message I did was almost 2 hours ago.  A remaining glitch still present I guess...
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>And you haven't referred to the board being hacked. I wonder why.


BK, I hope that you look past that comment that was very unfair and uncalled for.  There are over 500 members, and were only 8 replies to the "welcome back" hacked board message.  Most members by far, including myself, did not respond on the board to it.

BT

[Anonymous]

I feel bad though because in the end I raged at her words and she suddenly became calm and happy to see me hurting inside.

Bkkabri, does this sentence make any sense to you? Why are you feeling bad? First of all, you were only with this woman two years, you don't have any children, you weren't married, doesn't sound like there was a whole lot there to begin with. Secondly, why are you feeling like a schmuck because she was a bitch? You couldn't have done anything different or better to improve the situation with her, that's why these people are such head cases to deal with. It wouldn't have been your responsibility to do so if you could.

This is going to sound really crude, but I don't know how else to put it: Find your cojones, put them back on, and go on and start living your life in the present, not the past. You already admitted it was a nightmare. Time to wake up and move past this.

[Anonymous]

BT wrote-

>And you haven't referred to the board being hacked. I wonder why.
BK, I hope that you look past that comment that was very unfair and uncalled for. There are over 500 members, and were only 8 replies to the "welcome back" hacked board message. Most members by far, including myself, did not respond on the board to it.

BT, please see the second post, page one.

[BlueTopaz]

>BT, please see the second post, page one.

>Page one: "What do you think of this board being hacked?"

>2nd:   "And you haven't referred to the board being hacked. I wonder
            "why.
               


Hi Guest.

I see page one's message (and didn't before). Thank you for pointing it out.  

From an outsider looking in (not knowing your thoughts) I kind of still do find it a bit of an odd question, and follow up. Maybe you were only curious as to BK's dependancy on the board or something like that (whether he'd take losing the outlet of the board very hard).  There are some reasons that would make perfect sense to ask the question, and it seems like you were asking in that spirit.  

Thanks again for taking the time to refer me to the original message. Things can look a lot more different when taken in/out of context.  

Best...

BT

[Anonymous]

Thanks for your reply BT  I was thinking about the ability to relate to external events and people, instead of (or as well as) concentrating purely on the internal. I appreciated your reply! Guest

[BlueTopaz]