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Twoapenny:
Well I thought I would start this to keep track of my progress towards this next new phase :) What has become apparent is that this move will be very focused on leaving the past behind - mum and all people who know mum or who know people who know mum will not know where we are.  There will be much not knowing going on!  Lol.  Paperwork is not coming with us this time - it will be sorted, scanned, archived if necessary and everything else will be burnt.  There will be a full on 'witch over the cauldron' ceremony that night, I can tell you.  I have a lot of son's younger home ed stuff that I kept 'in case' I needed to prove what I was doing.  Some will be kept but much can go.  I have many photos that still need arranging in albums and frames - that's on the to do list.  I want to have a good home ed programme up and running for son, focusing mostly on various therapies that support him and on his various interests.  The idea now is that I get the programme organised and in place, with me doing everything, and over time I can take on carers and train them to do the same stuff that I do.  It's not difficult, it's just knowing it and being able to do it regularly so it will be easy enough to show other people the ropes.

I also want some work from home in place - I can set that up over time and just keep adding to it, hopefully.  So in actual fact, getting the money together to move will pretty much happen on its own.  By the time I've sorted everything else out, I think I'll have saved enough to just get on with it, so I think it might all go rather smoothly?

I'm also focusing on our health (mine and son's) as there's no point moving house only to be so exhausted from doing it that neither of us can function for weeks afterwards.  So regular meals, rest, sleep, yoga and fresh air are top of the list as well.  And I'm trying to look on the rest of our time here as an opportunity to get ourselves in a good position for the next stage.  So I will update on this when another small step is taken and hopefully before long I will be packing and organising vans! xx

lighter:
Whoo! HOO! Tupp...

THAT is a plan: )

You can count on my support over that cauldron.  I'm always up for a good burning ritual.  I'm overdue for one, myself.

Lighter

Bettyanne:
Oh so so proud of all your plans.......
So good for you to make a move about yourself and your son.....
Lots of smooth days ahead I hope.....and a good healthy move to boot....
Love, Bettyanne xo

sKePTiKal:
Good choice on a new plan Tupp; this IS the witch's new year after all - Samhain.

The rituals include honoring the past & deceased ancestors; welcoming them for the one night; sometimes food & drink is offered - in a silent meal; and at the end of the ritual -- letting all that go into the past. Fire is also recommended... as well as affirming your new goals for the next "year", while acknowledging that you're letting old, non-helpful habits go.

:D

Hopalong:
Tupp,
You are the embodiment of creativity and resilience.

I know that whatever plans you make, make sense. And that in reaching to achieve them, you give yourself focus and hope.

I know too that if an unavoidable change comes, or the plan does go exactly-precisely-perfectly as planned, you've had a lot of practice accepting and adapting, too. I usually trip up on perfectionism when I make such long-range plans, and often collapse with evaporating will. Your will is iron.

You are amazing. Awe inspiring!

Hugs
Hops

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