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sKePTiKal:
My tough, gritty & gruff, plainspoken all-man marine posted this last night when he couldn't sleep. This kind of thing keeps bubbing up from him - totally unexpected; not to "type" - and shows the levels of complexity that are impossible for a puzzle-solver like me to not love....

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TT5u2xVEO5M&feature=emb_logo

Hopalong:
Men need beauty, sweetness and stuff that goes to the heart as much as women do. If not more, given how they're programmed in this culture.

SO nice that B knows this and shares it too.

hugs
Hops

lighter:
That was so touching, Amber.   

It felt like SEEING B come into focus.... rich colors, and depth of emotion...... thank you for sharing that. 

Does he often have trouble sleeping?  Is it pain, or worry?

Lighter

sKePTiKal:
Some of both Lighter. He slept great when he was here.

There were many many nights I'd be up most of the night or several times a night those first months alone. It makes such a difference knowing that someone who cares is there. As Hol & S spend nights here & there at the hut - I'm re-experiencing a little of that kind of insomnia. But it's really minor. I have my routines pretty well down these days - even if I make exceptions to it here & there.

Right now, the time B & I can chat freely is after 9 or so; and it usually wraps up no later than midnight. Usually. LOLOL. Depends on what else is going on that we're chatting about. I have a feeling today's events will lead to an actual phone call... LOL.

Seems his D and her girlfriends got the wrong idea about his secret "trips"; the haircut for the Navy gig... and scheduled an "intervention" with him.... because they've only seen him hug two women in 18 years... and the way they connected the dots... they came up with him exploring latent homosexual tendencies. (I'm still laughing my butt off here over this...) After the girlfriends left, B came clean and explained to the D about me. And swore her to secrecy so his Ex doesn't get wind of it and cause trouble. Altho, at this point - it's a) none of her business and b) nothing she can do about it either. He's just a tad paranoid about dealing with drama.

I did warn him, that he'd have to tell her sooner or later - and sooner was preferable, since at 18 she should already know how to keep some things quiet, so as not to create drama. She was already stressed out enough, worrying about him when she went away to college.

This is still fabulously hilarious for me. I'm betting he sees the wisdom in my advice now. LOLOLOL.

lighter:
Hee.  Sometimes it pays to be honest.  Not that B exploring his sexuality would be a bad thing. 

Just what, exactly, is B afraid ex will DO when she finds out about you?

And....
How likely is it his DD will keep that secret?

Depending on the answer, maybe he should have let his dd's imagination continue running away with itself.

Hurry up, B! 
Quick!
Go.
Run!
NOW!
Time to go to WV before your ex discovers Amber!
::whispering::.
I hope his DD doesn't give away his position.

Lighter

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