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Farm Doin's - 2020
sKePTiKal:
She'll just create a whole drama - and possibly beg for money he doesn't have. And make herself out to be a martyr in the process; she's not well either - COPD and recurrent pneumonia. One of B's allergies is to drama. LOL.
He owes her half the proceeds of the house, when he sells it. And to keep the peace, he's kept her on his health insurance but because she is perenially broke also paid all her co-pays.
As far as I'm concerned, he's done right by her and doesn't have to give another inch. Not when she's constantly berating him, criticizing him, and running him down to Boo. Mostly due to his medical issues, btw. It's not serious "trouble" - it's just stuff that irritates him immensely. And that type wouldn't hesitate trying to reach out me with her sob story either. For financial help.
So - he's adamant about keeping HER in the dark and I can't say I blame him.
lighter:
I don't envy B's predicament. He has unfinished business with the ex... it will affect his dd..... ex will put the dd in the middle..... B will suffer, bc his dd will be made to suffer. Such is life when we make children with PDs.
Do you think B has any co dependency issues? It seems such an odd thing for a soldier to have such an aversion to conflict, but there it is.
Dear, gentle B.
Lighter
sKePTiKal:
DD is adopted; Ex left shortly thereafter because B was injured and she just didn't feel "that way" about him anymore. DD is what kept him alive till we met.
I can relate.
Hopalong:
So B's ex took the child with her as an infant, and B lost regular contact?
Or had less frequent contact than he was expecting as a father?
That's tragic if so.
hugs
Hops
lighter:
I think B was very involved Dad, sounds like.
It made my stomach flip to read what happened.....the wife left B cause of his injuries.
That she bullies him over them....she sounds like a sociopath. Not that she is, just saying. It doesn't speak well of her to run him down to their child, in any case.
Lord.
And he kept her on his insurance AND paid her copays for HER medical problems.....all while NOT making fun of her or her health issues to their dd.
Putting MANY miles between them will be a good thing, B and ex.
I wonder if he'll be able to break all contact.
Lighter
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