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Silver Linings
Twoapenny:
--- Quote from: lighter on March 20, 2020, 02:08:59 PM ---What an uplifting post, Tupp. There's so much packed in there!
You're mastering the art of living in the moment. Trusting yourself. Trusting the universe.
Doing what you can regarding your mum, then releasing expectations... letting that be enough. It's proactive and what your intuition feels is right, so it's the right thing for you.
THIS is the life you were born to live.
SEEING your world expand, during trying times, is another silver lining, yup yup yup: )
Lighter
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Lighter, it's so weird, during that last session with the T, I said that throughout my life, I have always thought that if I changed my circumstances - by moving house, or getting back to work, or son being looked after, or whatever - that I would feel better about myself. And of course that's never happened, I've always felt like, whatever I do, I get knocked back down the ladder and have to start again. We've always seemed to have an awful lot of bad luck and things seem to happen to us that don't happen to other people.
So it's kind of weird (in a nice way) to have had that final session, come out with all my baggage firmly deposited somewhere else, in the middle of a (very badly handled) pandemic - and suddenly find all this good fortune at my door. Weird but lovely. I think that would make a good slogan for a T shirt :) Lol x
Twoapenny:
--- Quote from: Hopalong on March 20, 2020, 03:45:19 PM ---Silver cloak.
What a stunningly lovely image.
I'm so glad for this Tupp.
All of those individual weights eased, from son's fatigue and your own, to feeling community spirit even at a physical distance.
I hope this all in some way eventually rejuvenates culture, humanity, and community. I do think it's possible this will be a long-term outcome of the world going through something like this together.
Hugs
Hops
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I really hope so too, Hops. I'm hoping that this makes people understand that we can't all operate as separate countries any more. We all need to look out for each other and work collectively to keep the planet healthy, and to keep the people on it healthy. It's certainly focused my mind on making environmental and socialist type stuff more my 'thing'. I've always been interested and have done what I can but haven't fully committed, I think. That's changing now :) xx
lighter:
Tupp:
That's a wonderful silver lining.
I remain in awe of your indomitable spirit.
In a nutshell... what would your T call the process you've moved through?
Light
Twoapenny:
--- Quote from: lighter on March 21, 2020, 11:57:01 AM ---Tupp:
That's a wonderful silver lining.
I remain in awe of your indomitable spirit.
In a nutshell... what would your T call the process you've moved through?
Light
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I'm not sure, Lighter, what do you mean, the trauma processing? Or the EMDR stuff? xx
lighter:
The way she'd say you moved through it. The process... in a nutshell.
To get to the place you processed. The processing. What it is now.
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