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Hopalong

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For Doc G
« on: March 29, 2020, 03:25:14 PM »
Dear Doc G --
I want to thank you again for this Board. I can't express how important and sanity-saving it is for me to check in here...several times a day! I don't know if you fully know how grateful I am (and I know we all are) to have this safe space, and the friends therein, to reach out to any time.

Much less in the middle of a pandemic. The VESMB is my touchstone, and nearly the first thing I turn to when I log in, every single day.

So my real question is, given we know you have some serious health issues, how are you doing? Are you and your family okay? Is self-quarantine happening, and are you bearing up? As caring and invested as you are in loving people, I imagine this is a pretty hard time for you.

Thought it was time to send you some love.

Much of it,
Hops
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Re: For Doc G
« Reply #1 on: March 29, 2020, 03:51:19 PM »
Echoing Hops.... sending profound gratitude Doc G's way. 

Thank you, thank you for this board.

I hope you and yours are doing OK. 

Lighter


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Re: For Doc G
« Reply #2 on: March 29, 2020, 05:10:28 PM »
Thanks, Hops and Lighter!  Very sweet of both of you.  I am doing ok, and so is my wife, Hildy.    I continue to read everybody’s posts, and I’m so glad the Board is helping people feel less alone in this tragic period. 

A few weeks ago, the tornado in Nashville missed my daughter’s house by a ½ mile or so—a couple blocks away, all of the telephone poles were snapped in half.  Friends of friends of hers died, and people she knew lost their businesses.  She is now calling it a harbinger of what was to come (the virus).

Of course, my dear long-term patients are struggling as well.  I’ve been talking/meeting on the phone with most of them.   Some of them (university professors) are now Zoom experts given that they have to teach online.  I tried Zoom with one of them, but I couldn’t get it to work—but I’m sure I’ll figure it out!  Most importantly, we haven’t lost contact, and they are not feeling alone.  That would be very painful for both them and me.

Yes, Hildy, Louise Tucker (our newest dog) and I are self-quarantining and doing a lot of cleanup/cleanout tasks we have put off for years.

My love goes to all of you on the Board—you are my extended family!  Please take care and keep me and everyone here “posted.”

Richard
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Re: For Doc G
« Reply #3 on: March 30, 2020, 01:52:07 AM »
I'm so sorry your D lost friends in that tornado, Dr G, even friends of friends brings things home and you know their families are suffering so much.  I'm glad you and yours are doing okay, yes, I think a lot of spring cleaning jobs are getting done now.  Like the others, I can't tell you how much the board means to me, and how much I value my friendships here xx

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Re: For Doc G
« Reply #4 on: March 30, 2020, 04:14:06 PM »
Thanks, Tupp.  There is so much suffering in the world right now.  I'm so glad you're part of this wonderful community.

Richard

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Re: For Doc G
« Reply #5 on: March 30, 2020, 08:53:09 PM »
Dr G,
I think I figured out that it was 15 years ago when I first posted on VESMB! Thank you so much for putting this together for us--years later, I look back and it literally saved my life to have people to talk to who understood where I was and what was happening to me. I am so grateful.

I'm so glad you and your family are okay. Please keep us posted.

CB
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Re: For Doc G
« Reply #6 on: March 31, 2020, 10:56:58 AM »
Thanks, CB—and thanks for your valued participation for all these years!  We are all so lucky to have each other!

Richard

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Re: For Doc G
« Reply #7 on: May 07, 2020, 09:37:18 AM »
Hi Doc G,
I think you asked me recently to share any research my new T mentioned in regard to her sense that Nism isn't as fixed as once believed (other than extreme ends of that spectrum). I remembered to ask her last time and she referred me to a book by Dr. Craig Malkin called Rethinking Narcissism.

Haven't read it yet but I plan to. If you do, would love to know what you think!

Gratefully,
Hops
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Re: For Doc G
« Reply #8 on: May 08, 2020, 07:37:53 AM »
Hi Hops,

Thanks!  I ordered the book, and I'll let you know what I think when I read it.

Appreciatively,

Richard