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Bettyanne:
your right and she is a therapist

I had my own mother control or at least wanted to control everything when I was a kid and also an adult

your right.......

Thanks, Bettyanne

seastorm:
this horrible violence affects the whole family. The children know exactly what is going on and the coverup and fake promises and the likelihood it will happen again. It is not safe for them. The adults can choose to live in this opera but the kids don't deserve it.
Yes, these are stressful times but there is help for people who can't or wont control their impulses to be violent. If they don't get help and lots of it, the leave. It is a hard world out there for single moms but it can be done with support.

I think Bettyanne that this is very very stressful for you. Keep writing. Any abuse you suffered will be dredged up and you need to detach from the chaos with people who support you.  I really feel for you, hearing that plea for help when you child experiences violence and injustice is pretty earth shattering. Be Very Nice to Yourself. You have had a shock.

All the best

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