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My husband has been dead over a year now...........omg

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Hopalong:

--- Quote ---it's never to late to say NO.......and learn to love ourselves
--- End quote ---

Thank you for this, Bettyanne. It was just what I needed to hear!

I was thinking how a new wave of grief after a year made a lot of sense. You miss Bill so very much. I never would remember to pay attention to "anniversary reactions" before they sneaked up on me, but I know I've had them. In time, the waves just get a little smaller until you can rock a little but not feel you're drowning.

I bet what Bill would want is for you to find peace inside so you can enjoy small moments of beauty or nature or laughter. I bet he'd like to see you release your mother to the past and enjoy the present now -- every scrap of beauty you see. Enjoy it for both of you.

big hugs to you, Bettyanne--
Hops

Bettyanne:
Thank you Hops from the bottom of my heart what you said means a lot to me.  Truly kindness.......
Love, Bettyanne

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