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2022 Frozen Tundra Farm Report
lighter:
How's it going, Amber?
What has to happen leading up to surgery?
Does B have to sign a POA or something, just in case something doesn't go well? DO you have decision making power while he's not capable of making deicisions?
You, as always, don't have to answer, but I've been through enough of these rodeos to understand an inch of proactivity can save one from miles of red tape and frutrating trouble best avoided.
Lighter
sKePTiKal:
Well, so far so good Lighter. Yesterday was a couple of tests the surgeon wanted; those were local. We were able to accomodate the change in location for the surgery... thanks to Hol's availability to drive. While it was upsetting to process that change at the last minute practically speaking, we did it. So, there's a few things to keep us occupied till we have to sleep early, to be awake at the crack o' dawn to join the commuter rush hour Friday morning. Hol is the "wheelman" any time there is city driving to be done - because my old irrational fear of getting lost is BASED on getting lost in cities. Drop me out in the wilderness and I'll find my way home, every time.
Going to plant some bluebells Buck brought - out in the woods, pot enough aloe to start an aloe farm, plant the flowers & herbs I have started and maybe weed my kitchen bed. Danged deer ate the flowers off my valerian! The stalk was 4 ft tall.
lighter:
Plant away, my dear and remember you can't control everything. You're the sky.... the location shifts, the driving and the deer munching your valerian flowers are the clouds and storms.
Maybe consider getting a hotel room Thursday night, so you're near the surgery center, to take some of the stress out of this?
I'm glad Hol is available to help: )
Lighter
sKePTiKal:
So, our driver bailed on us, due to an objection from S. So we're leaving today and spending the night on the VA side of the Potomac. That way, no worries about rush hour traffic in the morning; we'll only be a few miles from the surgi-center. Much to put in order this morning, so I'll leave it there for now.
Hopalong:
That's smart, Amber.
I believe you'll be just fine.
Take your time, breathe, and stop often as you feel like to reassure yourself you're on track.
Anyway, you don't need my advice -- GOOD LUCK, BUCK!
hugs and comfort--
Hops
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