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Hopalong:
Me too. UK cottages. Nice antidote to over-designed tiny houses (though I love the really individual ones) parked in stunning landscapes in NSW or NZ.

One of my favorites is a nerdy young gay guy in England who's lost both his parents and just moved to ab isolated rundown stone cottage in Ireland and is fixing it up, room by room and lots outdoors too.

I've enjoyed several women-in-wilderness ones too. Interesting. Never thought about how many times I'm drawn in by people living alone in wilderness or isolation, with only their camera for a friend, but talking to the world.

hugs
Hops

lighter:
Watching castle and chateau renovations, on a budget, make me feel so much lighter about my projects, Amber.  I also absorb creative solutions, I might otherwise not have on board.

Lighter

sKePTiKal:
Yup, there's a lot out there that can be helpful & interesting in little ways/big ways. I'm also watching the vids of people giving up & moving on - for whatever reason. A lot of people think any old person can make a homestead work. Then they find out how much hard work is involved in building/developing a property. How it's impossible to get up & travel when you have animals.

Then, there are the people who find their individual "self" and freedom to BE, in their projects. Whether it's gardening, preserving, learning to lime wash & point stone walls... Building complex roofs. And the work become their joy.

I'm also watching a LOT of sewing vids. Historical fashion and techniques. Fancy dress patternmaking, tailoring. It's hitting the part of the summer, when I'll take refuge in the studio because it's too awful outside for me to work.

Still have some herbs to plant & garden to weed & tend; still have marigolds to get in out there. But I have to get motivated/moving VERY early in the morning to do so. Some days don't work out that way. And it's OK with me, that it doesn't get done RIGHT NOW. It's not going anywhere.

lighter:
Oh....I like the historical fashion/sewing vids too.  The girls sew, so it pops up in my feed. Very interesting.

About giving up .....on homesteading....
on anything really.

It's not giving up/failing, to put down something that's not working, IME.  It's facing reality, and turning towards something that can work. 

That's the thing about judging......it's builds an unhelpful story around things, that otherwise can just be what they are, sans all the chemical dumps, IME.

Not failing/giving up. 
Discerning, and pivoting, yup yup yup.

And the lime washing and repointing.  Is there anything more satisfying to watch?  I'm not sure there is.  Check out Castle Impossible.  Love it.

Lighter

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