Author Topic: Food for thought  (Read 154 times)

lighter

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Food for thought
« on: June 03, 2026, 09:13:52 PM »
Who are we choosing today, ladies?

Who's opinions, voices, and judgments are we honoring....
 in the for ground, and background of daily life...today?

In order for a negative opinion to have a negative affect....
one needs to buy into it, at least a little. In the Four Agreements, being impeccable with words, includes thoughts.

Choose to honor self.....above all .....every day....hour.....moment.

I hope this thread becomes a good spot to share important thoughts for the day, short and sweet.

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Hopalong

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Re: Food for thought
« Reply #1 on: June 06, 2026, 12:17:39 PM »
I'm not good at short.

But reality is my friend is one of the most helpful thoughts I've ever had.

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sKePTiKal

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Re: Food for thought
« Reply #2 on: June 08, 2026, 09:19:53 AM »
I'm on a computer "diet".

Noticed that even when I wasn't interested in something, the computer bringing up the same old same old and practically insisting I pay attention to things I consider insignificant or unimportant or stuff I already know... and wasting time I could be using more productively.

Then, there is the cybersecurity issue. I had a total panic meltdown over a phishing phone call. Said they were the bank's fraud unit; even tho they came up on the phone as "unknown". They had info the could only get from the bank website and were trying to convince me to give them more info. I hung up. But in my sleep that night, I found the "common denominator" - the piece of data about me, identifying me - in all the databases from shopping, to financial info, to when I worked 6 months for the gov't. My phone number. My phone's going on 20 years old at this point but it still works fine as a PHONE. Phone company will let me change my number for a reasonable fee. Just like we're reminded to change our passwords, periodically, it's time I changed my number. This info that was hacked over the years gets sold on the dark web to thieves, hackers... pirates...

After a weekend of watching my accounts, I'm going to spend less time online. And take all the usual defensive steps. Starting with the phone number. Always closing the browser window after logging in/out to banks or to pay bills.

I'll still pop in here to chat and support, and all. But the only way to stay safe online - is to not BE online.
Success is never final, failure is never fatal.

Hopalong

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Re: Food for thought
« Reply #3 on: June 08, 2026, 11:36:26 PM »
Aaack, I'm so sorry, Amber. I'm glad you're changing your number and share that cold-chill feeling. I always, always tell anybody (including charities) who calls unsolicited that I'm happy to receive info by mail but I do not share my info over the phone. Yikes. (And I do not tell anyone new or unknown my mailing address, either.)

But I'm definitely NOT ready for an Amber diet!

Stay safe, hang in there. I'm glad a new number is an option. I still have a live landline but recently have abandoned it to use my cell only. Only problem is I regularly lose my cell and panic until it's right there, under my pillow or whatever. NOT a satisfactory solution but so be it. I'm going to get one of those cell lanyards and wear the damn thing. (I reallllly dislike having a leash around my brain.)

Otherwise I might as well tattoo all my info on my forehead and invite strangers to Zoom.

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