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Hopalong

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« Reply #1830 on: March 26, 2020, 11:30:06 AM »
Hey G,
If you're feeling numb and sleep helps, sleep sounds good.

For me, sleep is a relief and a release.

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« Reply #1831 on: March 29, 2020, 02:43:21 AM »
Listening to a lot of music. It's gray and windy outside so not going out much at all.

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« Reply #1832 on: March 29, 2020, 07:35:27 AM »
G, I think I've gotten so involved with screens in recent years I haven't realized how much I've neglected music. I love so many kinds and have good speakers!

Whassamattame.

Thanks for the reminder. And I hope spring gets to you fast.

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« Reply #1833 on: March 29, 2020, 02:29:05 PM »
Rousseau Piano channel on YouTube is super interesting to watch, bc the keys light up AND there's sometimes little puffs of smoke that rise from the keys AND there's light above the keys too.  Amazing to listen to, even if you aren't watching.

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« Reply #1834 on: March 31, 2020, 05:29:01 AM »
Dropped off of the news consumption and spending a lot of time listening to music mostly old folk songs.

Do it Hops > https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=onUTfwML_9o
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« Reply #1835 on: March 31, 2020, 12:21:59 PM »
I'll see yer folk song and raise you an...
dunno what this is, and it includes rude language,
but MADE ME LAUGH!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e0-2XxgHIXk

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« Reply #1836 on: March 31, 2020, 12:24:38 PM »
Ooooh! I LIKE Vintage Trouble!
Love me some blues (and nattily dressed gennulmen....)

Thanks, G!

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« Reply #1837 on: April 04, 2020, 04:21:17 PM »
Today I am feeling massively fed up with myself and with bureaucracy. I don't think I have the interest to write a bunch of psychobabble here about it though it starts to seem like self absorbed nonsense at times. I definitely feel like I've taken two steps forward and five steps back. Perhaps I will think about it later when I have the time.

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« Reply #1838 on: April 04, 2020, 09:45:25 PM »
Aaaack.
Sounds like school stuff, and requirements stuff, G.

Hope you can sort all this out.

Vent any time!

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« Reply #1839 on: June 13, 2020, 02:31:34 AM »
Love never dies a natural death. It dies because we don't know how to replenish its source. It dies of blindness and errors and betrayals. It dies of illness and wounds; it dies of weariness, of witherings, of tarnishings.

Anais Nin


Because why not.

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« Reply #1840 on: June 13, 2020, 10:42:49 AM »
(((((G))))))

Can you talk more about how you're feeling?

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« Reply #1841 on: June 14, 2020, 02:53:17 AM »
I'm fine Hops. Mostly tired. Reading too many dark texts based on requirements. That is mainly it. Plus personal things I'd rather just simmer in annoyance with.

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« Reply #1842 on: June 14, 2020, 01:03:18 PM »
Got it.
Sometimes simmering makes the best soup.

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« Reply #1844 on: July 23, 2020, 10:21:52 AM »
This was very interesting to me, G. Thanks for posting it.
I don't think I've ever seen a data-based breakdown of how various toxic beliefs correlate to depression.

Being numbers-avoidant I didn't really dig into the data, but I was fascinated by some of the verbal descriptions of those "pathogenic" beliefs. It occured to me that the simple woman's shortcut could simply be to watch out carefully for thoughts like this, and use affirmations or self-hypnosis to work on rationally eradicating them.

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The three most common pathogenic belief items that were endorsed “yes” were item 54, “being burdened, overworked or a martyr is a mark of virtue” (41.67%); item 20, “disagreeing with others will result in contemptuous, angry and rejecting reactions” (40.00%); item 1, “I need to defer to others instead of pursuing my own ideas, needs or interests”; and item 31, “I must remain excessively involved with parents or loved ones because separation would be hurtful, disloyal or make them feel abandoned” (35.00%). In contrast, the least common was item 4, “it is wrong, threatening or disloyal to surpass parents, siblings or significant others” (3.33%); item 16, “I deserve to be mistreated and therefore put myself in self-destructive or abusive situations/relationships”; and item 47, “if I am too sexy, others will feel envious, put me down or threatened”.

Of 54 items, 13 items were found to significantly differ between the two groups (OR ranged from 3.76 to 16.79). The top three OR scores were 16.79 (item 26, “others are superior or more competent than I am”), OR 16.79 (item 22, “I am different from other people, isolated from the rest of the world and/or not part of any group or community”), OR 12.43 (item 3, “I am physically fragile, vulnerable and unhealthy”) and OR 12.25 (item 8, “others will hurt, abuse, humiliate, cheat or manipulate me”) (Table 2).

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