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« Reply #1725 on: February 17, 2017, 08:55:44 PM »
I'm thinking about planning a trip/vacation to the MET museum in NYC. Never been to New York.

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« Reply #1726 on: February 21, 2017, 01:39:15 AM »
Have nothing interesting to say. Just sometimes I open the board but then I'm too tired to read it, I glance at the blueness of it and kinda space out.

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« Reply #1727 on: February 21, 2017, 06:10:36 AM »
Have nothing interesting to say. Just sometimes I open the board but then I'm too tired to read it, I glance at the blueness of it and kinda space out.

I do that as well, G, I just find it comforting to know it's there - I think it's a bit like a companion that you feel comfortable enough to sit in silence with :) x

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« Reply #1728 on: February 28, 2017, 12:31:25 AM »
My supervisor and department head called me into a meeting. It was sent out in an email meeting request. I asked my supervisor what the meeting was and she smiled and wouldn't tell me. So it was a surprise.

The meeting was about a customer complaint, why this needs to be kept a mystery I don't know. I felt blind-sided. The customer /guy was odd from the very start so I had a good idea which customer it was.

He wouldn't allow me to help him but only wanted to dish out put downs. It the middle of the conversation I had with the customer he said that he had a direct phone line to our "glorious CEO". That right there is just a very weird thing for a customer to say. Is it a threat or was he planning to elevate this before the conversation even started? And I have to be reprimanded and because the customer is always right no matter what... yada yada

The sups said that I wasn't being written up or getting a formal warning for it yet all customer complaints like this get logged in our employee file. Is this not double talk.

He hadn't yet even purchased anything from us. He had no REAL history with our company yet he already needed to speak to the CEO. He had contacted the CEO on their linked-in account. I guess he felt special for thinking to do that. Someone pointed out to me why didn't he just contact the CEO in the first place.

I told my sup and the department head that some customers like to try and get someone fired just for the fun of it. They told me I wasn't being fired. I did tell them that it's the nightmare of working in customer service. I also told them that there are customer's who give formal thank yous to me as well. Honestly there was nothing extra-ordinary about his situation many customer's have the same situation and never need to speak to the CEO about it. The customer had spoken to my lead after he talked to me because I apparently wasn't doing enough to help him, my lead used totally different language and approach with him and he hung up on her. Lucky for her she is retiring next week  8)  so they can't reprimand her which would also be cruel considering the guy was a jerk.

Sometimes customers really do enjoy being mean and want to be mean to someone because they enjoy seeing someone crumble. I work for a business that won't acknowledge that and takes the customer seriously.

From what I can tell the idiot couldn't reset his password or place an order yet he wouldn't let me do those things for him. So he HAD TO TALK TO THE flipping CEO and he complained about me. The meeting was supposedly about the words I used that I eventually said "What would you like me to do for you?" and after saying it a few times nicely. It eventually did come out as "what do you want me to do". So then he was able to complain that it sounded rude and complacent like I wasn't willing to help him at all.

Thank you for letting me write this out. I think I am going to re-visit again with my supervisors.

Can you believe that I am almost 40 years old and dealing with this.
« Last Edit: February 28, 2017, 12:34:39 AM by Garbanzo »

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« Reply #1729 on: February 28, 2017, 12:58:03 AM »
Aww, Boat, I'm sorry you have to deal with this.

Want advice? Do ignore if I'm off base.

I think as unsatisfying as it may feel in the short term, you might be better off NOT revisiting it with your superiors (not). The reason is that letting it go and moving on will likely stabilize the situation, whereas if you yield to the craving to confront (or honestly, to demand that they be fair to you)...may destabilize it.

Reminds me of a pique my employer had about one of his friends being unjustly mad at him. I finally asked him, do you want to make peace or do you want to be right?

I think you're right; I'd bet on it. Yet I don't trust that the corporate entity (or management drones) you work for really care enough about who's right, to hear you out fairly or change their procedures.

If you CAN let it go, it might be more important to keep your job secure, than to rock the boat with confrontation. Even though you're right....right doesn't pay the rent.

Kind of hate this opinion but I bet I'm ... right?

Hugs,
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« Reply #1730 on: March 06, 2017, 12:01:18 PM »
In the shower I was thinking what is the stupid simple ingredients list for happiness according to me.

Good Food, Art, nature, exercise, live music or just good music, money, friends.

When I look at that list I see how much my commute and geography as related to getting to work has dictated the shape of my daily routine. In fact so much emphasis is put on money which is just a fact of life.

Maybe I can find a way to do my job better and care less about it. Just better records keeping perhaps. Document keep records and then let go of the outcome.

Just random thoughts. I don't know where I am going with this.

I seem to have gotten over the hurtle of the dental issue as I went back to the dentist but now I have a slightly new issue. The dentist I just saw a few days ago said he saw no decay that I don't need anymore fillings. The two prior dentists found decay. Anyhow work time.

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« Reply #1731 on: March 23, 2017, 10:53:55 PM »
Author of the book The Artist's Way

"Seems to be if people work on their creativity their spirituality goes up, if people work on their spirituality their creativity goes up." 

Find this idea interesting. 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dfF3YQWnCHE
« Last Edit: March 23, 2017, 10:55:43 PM by Garbanzo »

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« Reply #1732 on: June 01, 2017, 07:55:23 PM »
Made cookies. Did Laundry.

http://allrecipes.com/recipe/10025/white-chocolate-macadamia-nut-cookies-iii/

Was going to upload a pic but can't remember how.


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« Reply #1733 on: June 01, 2017, 08:08:55 PM »
Anybody have Car buying stories that were great or terrible?

Been shopping for a car and of course budget is limited. There are so many mixed opinions from people. Was looking at Kia Soul because it's inexpensive, I know some people who own them and like them a lot but haven't owned the vehicle for over 10 years.

Some people tell me Volvo and Toyota outlast everything else.

I'm not a car person. I almost want to pick something just so I don't have to shop anymore.

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« Reply #1734 on: June 01, 2017, 10:55:38 PM »
Go to library and read Consumer Reports Auto Buying Guide.
It will point you to the best, safest, most reliable used cars.

Or new.

Also use Kelly Blue Book (it's online) to find correct value.

Then you mention the blue book value when you go to buy, and refuse to pay more.

Good luck! (I've never owned a new car in my life, learned too much about their instant depreciation.) In 50 years of driving, I've had only one lemon and that one I could have avoided had I read the Guide.

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« Reply #1735 on: June 07, 2017, 12:44:32 AM »
Thanks Hops oxooxoo

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« Reply #1736 on: June 07, 2017, 12:45:46 AM »
Michelle Carter the chick that encouraged her boyfriend to kill himself and then do an awareness fundraiser after. In the world of strange personalities. This is a very odd one.

http://www.bbc.com/news/world-us-canada-40181522

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« Reply #1737 on: June 07, 2017, 04:10:04 AM »
Michelle Carter the chick that encouraged her boyfriend to kill himself and then do an awareness fundraiser after. In the world of strange personalities. This is a very odd one.

http://www.bbc.com/news/world-us-canada-40181522

I will have to read this later sounds too horrible and bizarre for early morning!  But was popping in to see what's going on and it's very nice to see you posting again, G :) x

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« Reply #1738 on: July 09, 2017, 02:03:29 AM »
Warm here. Listening to 80's music, ate leftover ribs after work.

tonight was told how my nephew's friend was killed during a boating accident this week, a 12 year old girl was driving the boat, told by an adult man (drunk) in the boat to knock a boy off an innertube, or told by another kid in the boat to do it. news reports aren't consistent. Some/ a lot of people really have the IMPULSE to harm others. Maybe it's just part of homosapien evolution.
Perhaps they were just trying to cause a wake but the 12 year old driver ended up hitting the boy w/ the boat's propeller. Life is so harsh.

Summer has dangers, I once interviewed for part of the intake process for an emergency room in a big hospital. They have more ER visits on nice days. The more people are out and being active the more opportunity there is for danger. 

Life is so hard to live to the fullest sometimes, and yet so many reminders of how fleeting it is.

Anyhow. Summer is still nice. I want to fall asleep in a dress right now but won't.

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« Reply #1739 on: July 10, 2017, 04:47:34 AM »
Warm here. Listening to 80's music, ate leftover ribs after work.

tonight was told how my nephew's friend was killed during a boating accident this week, a 12 year old girl was driving the boat, told by an adult man (drunk) in the boat to knock a boy off an innertube, or told by another kid in the boat to do it. news reports aren't consistent. Some/ a lot of people really have the IMPULSE to harm others. Maybe it's just part of homosapien evolution.
Perhaps they were just trying to cause a wake but the 12 year old driver ended up hitting the boy w/ the boat's propeller. Life is so harsh.

Summer has dangers, I once interviewed for part of the intake process for an emergency room in a big hospital. They have more ER visits on nice days. The more people are out and being active the more opportunity there is for danger. 

Life is so hard to live to the fullest sometimes, and yet so many reminders of how fleeting it is.

Anyhow. Summer is still nice. I want to fall asleep in a dress right now but won't.

Wow G that is a horrible story, I get people want to have fun and risk taking is part of life (as is making mistakes) but some people really do need to put a minute's thought into what they're doing.  Awful for the person that lost their life but also for that 12 year old who now has to live with what they did.  What a terrible situation.  I spend so much time shaking my head at road users who overtake on bends or fly out in a space that's too small and then cut me up to get back into the traffic, such big risks for the sake of getting thirty seconds ahead.  Sometimes it's lack of experience, some people, as you say, have a need to cause discomfort or harm in some way.  Sad and pointless.

Glad the weather is good, though, you mentioning ribs made me feel hungry!  Hope you got some sleep, whether in the dress or out of it :) x