wedding

[Nlaws]

Good morning,
I am quickly getting nervous about a niece's wedding this Sat. The bride's mother has done nothing to prepare for her only daughter's wedding because "she was too busy volunteering at the church". Really she is punishing her daughter for marrying and moving far away (England).
My husband and his sibblings are all N's. My husband is the only one who is aware of the fact.
I would love to help make the wedding day special for my niece  although I'm not sure how to do that, besides a nice shower and wedding gift.
Any suggestions would be appreciated.
Thanks

Nlaws

[CC]

I think you are a wonderfully sensitive human being.  I think to tell your niece how you feel,  that you are thrilled for her decision, that you love her and will be there to support her during her marriage would go miles. When we come from an N family, just hearing that kind of validation is more of a gift than anything you could possibly do or buy.  Please tell her, or write it in a card personally.  She will never forget it.