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acapella and the other n-partners
Jaded911:
What was so horrible about the post about Herm leaving? I guess I have never understood that. Why did she feel that it needed to be deleted? Hope, isnt why you chose to speak out? You just simply asked why it was deleted.
Well my memory isnt the best, but if I recall, 100% was everyone stating they hated to see her go.
You know, I read that when a relationship ends with a N person. The N gets everything out of their sight that reminds them of the significant other. As if they think OUT OF SIGHT, OUT OF MIND.
Out of all of those posts that people put there about Herm leaving, how many of those people have come over to be supportive of Herm now?
hope2003:
Jaded: you are right, I posted my concern because there was 100% support for herm, and I felt that the thread wasn't left up long enough for the membership to review it. That thread wasn't getting hostile. My thread did get heated.
Originally, it was my hope that if herm was lurking, she would see how much people cared about her and rethink her decision. For me, as I was seeing herm post less and less, the board wasn't the same and I was losing some enthusiasm.
I think that it is so clear and obvious that Sand wanted herm out--for whatever reason. Herm is gone, and now we have somebody even better:
BUNNY
bunny:
Guest,
It helps a lot to hear your opinion. Thanks for the validation. I hope you will keep visiting us here.
hope2003:
Star started a thread on the other board saying very nice things about me and Herm:
I'm having a little trouble with the attitude about Hope and Herm being gone. Without splitting hairs about what happened & why, blah blah, what I remember is their great qualities, thinking, strength, and how helpful they were to us whenever we needed help. I'd like to think we don't discard all of that. I can't.
There are so many great people here, but they are great, too.
If you are out there lurking, I really appreciate your kind thoughts. It will be interesting to see if anybody has the guts to chime in. I think that Sand has created fear in the members of being banned.
Time for "Queer Eye for the Straight Guy" Can't think about this topic much longer.
hope2003:
I just checked the npartners board to see the responses to the nice thread star posted. I couldn't resist sending Sand this direct e-mail:
I assume that you are going to ban MariaTree for accusing members of Nism behavior. You are preaching that is not allowed and is a reason for banning, and she is obviously referring to some who are still members.
After all, you banned me before I ever used the N word.
I know how “fair” you are, so let’s see it?
How much do you want to bet that she will have a subtle nuance that distinguishes what mariatree said from what we did. I guess the subtle difference is that we directed our comments at Sand, and mariatree directed at us.
This is hypocrisy.
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