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acapella and the other n-partners
Nike:
OH shut up Mindy it's me, Lisa.....for cryin out loud girl, although I love ya, you need to think before you speak (and accuse) sometimes. See?
We all have our share of problems and I can say that you are NOT a narcissist. If you really think that what you have been putting up with all this time from Sandahl is N...then you should have left a long time ago.
I am not leaving that forum because you and her had a disagreement is all I am saying. I dont feel like I am putting up with any crap from Sand, never have. Until this whole thing, it was very peaceful there...I love the people and I am going to have to be understanding that because of diversity, we are going to have some problems arise now and again.
I feel like you got your say in as did the others, but then again I dont know what posts were erased , I really dont know what I missed. Some things I have read since and I still dont think it's a big enough deal for me to get all bent out of shape about. PEACE baby girl :)
Nike:
PS...Im probably the biggest most rebellious little fart on these boards so dont you go saying IM any kinda ass kisser.....if something is wrong TO ME...I will state it but I will not FOLLOW you are anyone else out of a place I enjoy being just because some of you feel that you have been wronged. I'm sorry for that, I wish it were different and I wish you would all come back ....if that's ever what you want to do. Nike/Lisa
hope2003:
Lisa: the problem I have with Sand's actions are exactly what Mindy pointed out. she deleted the offensive stuff she had posted, and left up her support. Anyone who came in late in the game was not able to assess for themselve what happened.
I am not asking the board to stand up to her by asking someone to "go to bat for us" I am simply asking that our side be presented.
Lisa, you are highly dependent on that board. Imagine how it would feel if you were suddenly, and without warning, banned and had your support taken away. you couldn't tell your friends how to find you. BOOM!
It isn't funny.
I_am_mine:
Thanks for all the support for my posts, I'm glad that some of you felt I could speak for you when you weren't allowed to speak for yourselves.
At this point, tho, I think it's best for me if I kinda bow out of this...I can't keep going round and round with a person who says that what i see is not what I see.
As I posted on the other board, that's the way I grew up, that's the way I was raised, and that's the way I learned to relate to the world. No matter what I saw, if it didn't correspond with my Ndad's warped view of the world, I was not seeing what i was seeing! Does that make sense? I mean, if I said the sky was blue, and he was feeling particularly "N-ish", he'd say, NO YOU ARE WRONG, THE SKY IS GREEN AND IT HAS ALWAYS BEEN GREEN!
Circular arguments...twisted words...hidden meanings...personal agendas...I'm trying to get these things OUT of my life, not add MORE.
This isn't to say that I've changed my position. What was done (at least the part I'm aware of) was wrong, IMHO, and I feel you all have legitimate grievances.
I'm just going to do a fade for awhile. I've got too many real-life things going on (I don't mean that in a demeaning way, I know the board stuff is real life, too, but I kinda came in at the middle/end of it). I've got a 15 year old who's going into intensive outpatient treatment for substance abuse, my Ndad was diagnosed with Alzheimer's, he's finally agreed (so so grudgingly) that he, my sis and I need to see his lawyer so sis and I can take over his financial/health concerns (he says, "Isn't that nice? now you girls will be able to finally get your way!"). That alone is going to be a nightmare, cause in his Alzheimer's world, he's gone thru all his important papers, bills, etc., and either shredded them or "disappeared" them...I've got some ongoing health problems, mom passed away in July and I've not even BEGUN to deal with it, it's just starting to hit me now...plus learning this "voice" stuff - all my reading material now deals with either Alz or NPD...
I'm so sorry, but I'm saturated. I was up til 8 am the other morning, just fooling around on the computer, and til 6 am this morning...can't turn my head off to get some sleep.
If I helped in any way, I'm grateful, but I hope you all understand that altho I'd like to continue, I'm outta steam...I made the choice to get into this, NONE of you ever asked me to, and I know you're not expecting me to be your "protector". From what I've read, you're all good, strong, people who are doing the work you need to do, and don't need anyone to lead you by the hand.
Thanks for your patience, and your good thoughts.
bobbie
bunny:
Nike/Lisa
We are on this board now, processing what happened on N-partners. If you want to remain on N-partners, I don't hold it against you. But let us have our feelings about N-partners.
My observation: Sand has behaved cruelly to some people. It is her privilege to do whatever she wants. But if she does, some people may say things about her that are not very flattering. It's not really going to have any affect on her, it is more for us to process feelings and work through them. Know what I mean?
Bunny/Herm
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