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acapella and the other n-partners
bunny:
Bobbie,
Thanks for all you've done. I'm sorry you have all this other stuff to deal with, and I hope you are going to be okay.
hope2003:
I agree with Bunny that it is our time to process the pain that Sand caused us. Lisa, if you think that an appropriate response to my concerns and Mindy's concerns is "have a nice life" then you can feel good about Sandahl and N partners. A dismissive response like that is nothing short of abuse. I wouldn't feel good about going back to that site. One, I will not beg for admission and two, Sandahl is a fraud.
Bobbie has all of the correspondence between Sand and me and Mindy. you can see her conclusion. The people on the board have come to other conclusions because Sand has censured us.
Bobbie, I hope that you will let us help you through this difficult time. Those who are over here are a great group, and I think I speak for all of us by saying that you can have your voice here.
I notice that she encourages bobbie to stay on the board, but she didn't take that approach with us, or with Herm when she said she was leaving. In fact, with respect to Herm she said "I can't make anyone stay or go" and she left it at that.
Sand has biases that are obvious.
Jaded911:
Bobby,
I know how you feel about having your mind bent about what you see, what you say, how you said it. It is very confusing. If this helps you at all, I have never had this before in my life, and it is still as confusing to me. You really do begin to lose your ability to judge things when you have someone always telling you what you see is wrong.
Be strong and don't waver away from what you know you see. Heck, get a couple pairs of glasses and switch them every time you are doubting what you see. Ya know, if both pairs of glasses reveal the same object, then by golly it is what it is. You will lose your ever loving mind if you try to convince yourself it is something other than what you see.
I know it is so overwhelming right now. But please don't go away because of this. I got so much information from people while I was N-partners. Many people put things to me in a way that made it easier to process. Please, if you just atleast read the posts, I promise you that you will gain from both sites. Just dig through the bull and learn.
I wish you the best and I hope to see you again.
I_am_mine:
Thanks, everyone, I knew you'd all understand. How encouraging and supportive that I'm seeing tons of empathy from all of you.
Yeah, I'll make it, everyone has problems, and many people have more than me.
I've not yet made a decision on the other board, will just lurk and read...honestly, I don't feel I have anything to contribute there anyway, and don't want to continue on with more of the same.
It's really good getting to know you all, even tho the circumstances could have been better, but...just wanted to let you know, thanks for everything!
bobbie
Jaded911:
Bobbie,
In defense of the N-partners board, continue to lurk there hun. There are alot of great people there who helped me. There are some there who say things in a manner that just seems to click with me. I had alot of people direct me to other places that I got alot of information from also. The world is full of conflict and I refuse to allow that tiff to undermine what I learned from some of the posts there.
Stay sweet and do not let anyone warp your sense of reality. There are good people out there and you never know when someone comes into your life what they bring to enhance yours. I try to learn something from every experience. I just lost that ability for awhile. Its comin back, thank goodness.
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