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acapella and the other n-partners
Anonymous:
You can have any thought or feeling you want Herm, I think all of you should , I never said you shouldnt. I am just upset that something like this upset the board like it has and that it wasnt handled well by either party. My whole "voice" on this whole situation has been more to the liking of "lets pick our battles" instead of immediately getting up in arms over something that you yourself didnt really want us to know much about or you would have explained your leaving better, right? But heck, you can do whatever you want and I hope that everything works out well for all of us and that we are happy no matter where we go or stay.
Hope, I didnt say for you to "have a nice life"....I dont know what you are talking about unless you are referring to what I said to you when I then obviously noted to you that I was joking....?!
I am not trying at all to urge you to more anger only to see if there would be any way you might come back to the board as well as stay here since you like it so much....but I can see that you dont want to do that so I will leave it alone. Lisa
Anonymous:
Bobbie,
I am so sorry about all of the problems you are having right now. I know it must be very sad as well as just a big pain in the ass with your father being in the shape he's in.
I hope things look up for you very soon and that YOU yourself start to feel better, I didnt know you werent well. The last thing you need is all this crap, huh? Take care of yourself and come back to us at NPD or stay here and talk , but please go somewhere to vent things if you need to.
I'll be thinking of you, xo Lisa
I_am_mine:
Jaded, I haven't made any decision about the other board yet. Yes, I'm going to hang around and read and learn - you're right, it seems there are many good people there, that's what attracted me to it in the first place. I just don't think I'm in a good spot right now to decide to leave, but I'm not real comfy about contributing, either. I'll work it out, the board will go on either way, and I think it's just best for me to not make an impulsive decision.
Lisa, thanks for your concern and support. I'm really sorry, I didn't mean to turn this whole thing into "about me" - I just wanted people to know that there were reasons (in addition to me just kinda "popping up" in the midst of all this) that I felt I'd said my piece and would disappear back into the woodwork.
Like I said, no one pressured me to "go to bat", what I did was my own choice, and I know everyone understands if I step out now.
Don't worry, if I need to vent, I usually do - but sometimes I don't have the energy or the motivation. Then when I do get the energy, I usually come out with a "super-rant"! Gotta learn to modify that process a bit, I think!
I'm just feeling badly because it seemed you all felt part of a helpful community, and now some good people are "displaced" - not a good situation when people are looking for help and support.
OK - everyone try to be good to yourselves, and I'm actually going to try to get some sleep tonight.... :roll: All I can say, as an outsider looking in, is that it sounds like you've all learned a lot from this experience, and tho it wasn't a positive experience, what you've learned will benefit you.
Sweet dreams to all,
bobbie
Anonymous:
--- Quote from: bunny ---Bobbie,
Thanks for all you've done. I'm sorry you have all this other stuff to deal with, and I hope you are going to be okay.
--- End quote ---
Bunny (love that name) - no thanks needed, I didn't do anything but state my feelings. As for the other stuff - well, I don't know anyone who doesn't have "other stuff", it's all part of life. Sometimes I just spew...and more stuff comes out than I intend.
And thank you for your concern, I'll be ok. I mean, I have to be, right? That's my main goal in life, at this late stage, is to be as "okay" as I can be.
From what I understand, you got a pretty raw deal in all this, and I'm very sorry for that. I'd read many of your posts, and have a lot of respect and admiration for you, and it sounds like you were shoved aside like old garbage. No one should be treated that way, and I feel bad that it happened.
We all deal with the things we have to deal with, right? And I'm convinced if we all keep working at it, we'll all be much more "okay" as time goes on.
bobbie
I'm_mine:
oh, nuts, I got signed off, too lazy to log in again.
Just noticed that at 12:35 I said i was going to sleep...now it's 3:38 and the alarm rings at 6:30!
Disclaimer: Anything I said previously that was stupid or goofy is due to chronic sleep deprivation! Yeah....that works!
bobbie
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