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acapella and the other n-partners
I'm_mine:
Unbelievable! I thought I just took too long to post or something and got logged off, but when I looked at the post to bunny...well, i guess i never logged in to begin with!
sleep...sleep...sleep...
bobbie
hope2003:
Lisa: the "have a nice life" is a quote of Sandahl. It was her response to both me and mindy. I thought that it was dismissive. Yes, we should pick our battles, but I happen to think (obviously) that this is one worth fighting. It is a battle against nism. It is why we are all on these boards in the first place.
hope2003:
to all:
I just read Engel's post on the Npartners board. She came to my defense saying that she couldn't see what I said that was offensive, and that my tone was reasonable.
Sandahl lied. This was my private e-mail to her. I wrote this to her privately when she had kicked me off Of course, we can't read the thread because she erased it, but she said that she was trying to avert a train wreck and that she started a thread inviting us to discuss it with her privately. You judge who is offensive:
You are creating the train wreck. Obviously, nobody
> wanted to respond
> to your thread because they wanted to discuss how
> the group should be
> run among the group members, through a consensus.
This group is not up for a vote!!!
> You kicked me off without so much as an explanation.
Seems to me you hung yourself...I owe you no
explanation...you lost that when you refused to use
the proper format.
> For somebody who
> claims to care about the healing of others, how do
> you think that you
> have made me feel? Obviously, you don't care.
> I agree with Mindy. You are the N.
Your N coment alone is grounds for banning though I
only resended your membership. You owe me, and
> everybody else and
> apology for your controlling crap.
I owe you nothing!!!
> This wasn't about you to begin with, but now it is.
You all made it about me...now go have a nice life.
>
Now, this is the woman committed to helping people heal and diversity of opinion.
bunny:
Lisa,
We are picking our battles. It's a battle against a vindictive, cruel, arbitrary person (Sandahl). You may not like the way things turned out, but this is how people handle being abused.
I didn't give a reason why I was leaving because it seemed obvious to me. Others knew exactly why -- it was because Sand had become very hostile toward me. Why would I stick around for that? I also had no interest in starting a big conflict. There was a conflict anyway, because of SAND. She handled it poorly; no one else did, if you care to look at it more closely.
Nike:
Bunny,
If it was so obvious why you left, why were so many people asking, "where's Herm??" "why did Herm leave?" "Is she going to come back and talk to us about it??" It didnt seem to be very clear at all to me why you left and I dont think it was very clear to many of the people at N partners. That's ok, you can do what you want to do but I'm just saying I dont believe Sandahls "meanness" was as obvious as you say or those questions wouldnt have been asked. Personally I thought you wanted your privacy and for us NOT to know what the problem was because in your other posts about the incident at your sisters you got very mad and up and left then too..was Sand being mean to you then?
Hope,
Really I see that as normal conversation between two people who are arguing where things are starting to get heated. Add to that the fact that we are all typing our remarks and alot of things can be taken the wrong way sometimes.
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