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Dating advice

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bliz:
Thanks for the good advice.  October, I hope you feel ready soon because eight years is a long way to wait.  I waited about ten between the last and the recent ex.  It is difficult when you dont trust youreslf which is part of my problem.  It is good advice to take it slow, yet not take it too seriously.  That is a dilmena isnt it.  On the one hand be cautious, but on the other maybe not too cautious.  A balancing act as usual.

October:

--- Quote from: missm on July 24, 2005, 05:41:03 PM ---
When you find yourself interested in someone who's interested in you, take things very slowly. 

Be careful of anyone who lays down a lot of flattery and compliments. 

And along similar lines, remember that someone liking you is not a big old point for them.  It's just the first requirement.  A good relationship is an equal privilege for both parties. 


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I think these are all excellent points.  Thanks.

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