Hi everyone,
I am just new to this board and very relieved to find it!!!
I am ending a 3.5 year relationship with an N. It was filled with emotional and verbal abuse, hig additicion to gambling, laying, control, and manipulation of all aspects of my life, including work, financial, family and social. It has had a very major impact on my health (ovarian cancer, which I am sure is somehow related to the abuse and supression of emotions), finanical resources and social supports. Sounds very familiar eh!!
After many, many breakups, I am determined this time to finally move on. My problem is that determination is not enough.
Please help me try to cope and not return to the abuse and pain.