Unconditional love. I don’t feel I have to work towards feeling this for anyone (I don’t have children). I may go towards it, but I won’t try to. I won’t feel as though I have to, should. I won’t feel guilty or shameful because I don’t feel it. Just wanted to state those things, see what they look like written down.
Liz, when you say this is a gift: unconditional love of the truly unlovable – do you mean you feel this love for the unlovable? Or that maybe you think it exists in the world (not necessarily that you feel it for others?). I’m interested in how this manifests in words and actions etc. I kind of disagree with it – that this sort of love exists and is unconditional (unless you mean God’s love? Which I wouldn’t disagree with as a concept) – but I’m willing to think and change my mind. Thanks in advance!
PS The gift for me……over-riding all else
is the ability to think for myself, to think critically of everything…including my own thoughts more recently.
Which means maybe this will become a lesser gift to me in time? (I kinda doubt that but who knows...)