calling all angels....

[WRITE]

when my exN adopts a baby, my own d's child support goes down, automatically.

that is so weird.
As if having one child means another needs less...

Her ability to make good things happen in her life, out of not so ideal circumstances is, I believe, what this is about for her...and what her next few years will be about. Man, it took me a lot longer to figure this stuff out. She is lucky to be getting it at an early age....

you can be really proud! Well done.