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Discounted Girl:
There are so many guest postings, I don't know which to choose a reply, but, this is also for the one called "don't be so judgemental."

While no particular benefits are bestowed upon us willing to register and log on, it does provide a degree of identification to those reading our posts. Unless IP addresses are somehow traced through our log-on data and you are scared of the cyber boogieman, I don't understand the need to be known as "guest." If what one guest said is true that "anyone can rediscover their voice," after years of childhood abuse of any type you want to mention, then a simple sign on to a website procedure should be a snap.

I am not so sure ghostN's are posting on this site as guest or maybe even using multi-logged names, so much as just plain spineless, bored trouble-makers who fancy themselves therapists and even maybe think they are more internet savvy than the rest of us. It seems like quite often when a "button-pushing" post is made, it's from a guest. But, haven't we wasted enough of our life on jerks? I just cringe when I see some of you well-intentioned, loving, kind, genuine, intelligent and whitespirit-filled Nvictims waste your energy trying to explain and argue with these types.

You bet our childhoods were denied to us -- AND --------- YOU CAN'T GO BACK AGAIN, GUEST !!! If you had been N'd, you would know that. Some of us got cheated by monsters we called Momma and Daddy  :twisted:   -- THE ULTIMATE NO-NO. I don't believe in reincarnation, we are not going to pass this way again, and what happened wasn't our fault. There was/is no karma going on, there were/are actions of free will chosen by our parents that were wicked and they hurt us -- smacked us around. It wasn't our fault. No child ever did anything to not receive love from their parent. Yes, our baby voices were stolen, repressed and oppressed. We are mourning and dealing with the aftermath. I can't remember who, but one of our registered members said: "We must not consider it a privilege to enjoy life. Joy and peace don't only belong to others, we can have them to." All of the little kids still inside us are trying to find peace -- so, don't argue. If you want to read, read -- if you want to post, sign in. We've had a lifetime of tricks played on us, we're not interested in any more.  :x

Anonymous:
Discounted girl, it's not up to you to tell me or anyone else what to do. I've got a suggestion for you though, get the rules of the board changed so that no-one can come in as guest anymore, or hey, don't read what the guests write. That suits me. But don't tell me I can't post without signing in. And you've completely vindicated my position in my mind with your wild crazy accusations that guests are trying to trick you. You are just one of the hurt types still needing someone to swing at.

Guest and proud of it.

Discounted Girl:
Darn, I can't find the sticking out my tongue emoticon. I guess my N'dchildhood arrested my development. I do try to not read the postings from guests, but there are so many of them and I am a fast reader, so sometimes I mess up and I accidently scan your posts.  Well, ta-da you have been completely vindicated? I thought we were here to be validated. You're proud, you said it loud -- bye to you Guest  :)

Lizbeth:

--- Quote from: Anonymous ---What is not true? Prove it. You seem so sure, yet you even misquote guest, and call guest anonymous instead of guest. You took what guest said as a quote 'Anyone can rediscover their voice' and reframed it and then refuted your reframing. Not what guest actually said.
You turned it into nothing to do with the voice at all. You said we can't regain the childhood that's denied us, that's lost forever. Yes, that's right, but guest wasn't refering to childhood but was refering to the voice. Go back and read it. The voice has been on hold, on pause all these years, and can be rediscovered. Not lost, stolen or killed. Repressed, oppressed but still inside you.
--- End quote ---


I didn't call anyone anonymous, the board did that automatically.  I don't have to prove anything to you, GUEST.   Who are you to demand I prove anything, you don't even post with a name or a handle!  Maybe it should be "N".  You are sure reacting like one.

Anonymous:
Bravo, Lisbeth.  You are recognizing Narcisstic behavior, and calling attention to the fact that you do not have to deal with it.  Remember, Narcisstic people love to mince words and argue semantics.  Empathetic people are able to see the meaning behind the words, even if what is said isn't one hundred percent grammatically correct, or if the perfect word isn't used.  Empathetic people want to understand each other, Narcisstic people need to be right.  Congratulations, Lisbeth, you responded perfectly.

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