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Female Narcisists and a Narcisistic teenaged daughter

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Alan:
I read that 1% of the population is N and of that 75% are men.  My ex is an N and she has trained her daughter well to the point the kid was the emotional center of the house.  I had no control.   And I have seen this kid manipulate both of us. Mom semi deserted the daughter when she started to get her N Supply from me.  The kid said I controlled her mother, not letting her think for herself.  I didn't do anything except engage in conversation and Mom just did her attach thing.  

The kid has N tendancies, concerned for her looks, relates nothing gained in study, just disses people she doesn't like, never liked me bec I was "different", but it was actually Mom, along with her inappropriate behavior (walking around topless with me and a 13 y/o in the house).  When mom cold shoulder'd me, she went right back to the kid, whom also never liked my daughter (my kid is sane and balanced).  

Mom is an alky,  and this summer she asked me if it was OK if she could have a friend over and consume some wine coolers. Mom literally takes the viewpoint that if she's going to drink, she might as well do it at home.  My answer was it's your daughter and it's your call.  The kid is 16.  The apple never fell from the tree.

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