Hops,
I am thinking that you are brilliant right about now!
What a great question and a helpful one!
For me, when I'd see those signals, I can remember feeling really nervous, heart beating, almost like going to BATTLE to somehow try and HELP this person. I can remember feeling confused in my head, like being in some sort of daze or dream-state, if that makes sense. Then I'd feel ANGER rise up, at them ignoring me, punishing me, mocking me. Lastly, depresssed feelings, seeing that this person really DID want to hurt me because I was everything they wanted to be but felt they never could be...that makes me feel sad, because I am the type of person who would tell just about anyone, "if I can do it, you can do it"...
~Laura