Not always easy to find a therapist;
About a year ago, when the bf stole and forged one of my checks and left, I tried to get therapy.
I have no insurance and not a lot of money. I kept being told that I didn't qualify for various government programs as I was not suicidal.
Finally I talked with a neighbor who said, "I'm going to take you to Lifeways (our mental health program). Tell them you need services. When they say no, sit down and cry. Then you are in crisis and they have to take you."
They put me on a bus for the hospital for tests. Never have seen the results, but I keep getting the bills. Walked out of the hospital with no way home.
But it got me 6 weeks of counselling.
With a woman who meant well but was not a good fit. She kept talking about codependency and recommending to me books that I read 10 years ago . . .
She said that I could apply for another six weeks if I felt I needed it.
Much easier just to f--- my sister's husband.
I think that when you are voiceless passive-aggressiveness is a pretty natural result.
Haven't seen my sister in over a year (we share an occasional email). Have seen my mother twice in the last year, both by accident (we live in the same town).
Get all the family news from the brother-in-law.

The brother-in-law treats me better than anyone else in this family.
KATE