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rosencrantz:
LOL - Thanks for the smile
R

kelly8893:
Oh if I could write a book on "making nice" N people will do anything to make you believe their story or that "this time" will be different. They go out of their way to get you hooked and when you are living in "their" fantasy world and they know they got you again, they start the whole pattern over again, it's like they are obssive compulsive. They really start all over again because they are sick much like people with obssive compulsive behavoir it is just more subtle and long term. I had a relationship with a Major N for 8 years and the pattern never changed. What you have seen him do in the past he will do again and again until you either give up and live in his world or get out. There is little hope that he would have changed so drastically over night as he would have you believe. I wish I had better news but thats what my experience was and after so long I feel like I am just coming out of a very think fog with little balance, but each day I am away from him I see more clearly, baby steps. I wish you luck! Have a great weekend.
kelly

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