I never heard my N complain. He calculated his every response to elicit exactly whatever emotion he desired. He saw complainers as weak. He was in control, and he did not EVER contemplate the things that he did not control as it was outside the arena of usefulness to him. He demanded, and instructed, and forced people to do his bidding, but never did he complain, it would have appeared that he was not in control if he complained. He would put people down, and attack their self worth and looks and intelligence to their face, but when they were out of site, they were out of mind usually, unless he was devising a plan of revenge or plot of some sort to benefit himself. How can an N invest his energy into someone who will not benefit his false ego? To complain is to admit that you are not the center of the universe and you are not in control.
