Thank you Margo,
The risk here is that I live alone, 2000 miles away from ALL my family, and disabled at that. Isn't that food for thought? Isn't that strange? Many people might question that and I don't want to talk about it. So far i've been asked twice and I've said, "Who could resist this beautiful Okanagan weather in comparison to 6 months of winter in Ontario." That's the truth but I don't have let it all hang out as I do here.
I don't want anyone knowing about me who might gossip/pass it around, then suddenly everyone looks at me strangely because I have a daughter who will not communicate with me---must be my fault---what else am I hiding?---and all the other family crap I would like to resolve/forget!
Yes. I talked about my 50 years of smoking, with the woman in the office, and about my broken feet from the fall and a few personal things, but not my family issues. She, in turn talked about herself, out jjobs, etc. and we parted company.She will likely think that I am a very nice person, as I think of her, except for her noticeable tendency to interrupt the second she hears a familiar word.
All is well on the living alone front, for now!
Izzy