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The N meets Clint Eastwood

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Tokyojim:
Portia,

You seem to be open, so I can also say that you seem very judgmental.  I mean the nature of your comments and questions imply that you are putting a value - moral, ethical, and/or logical - on statements.  This is what I meant by not happening in this sort of forum.  That is, if people feel judged, they will probably censor their feelings and a lack of understanding will ensue.

I started the IP, not you.  I wrote the initial comment, and you responded.  It seemed that more people might be interested, so I set up that post.  Check if you do not believe.

Finally, you asked if I am looking for understanding, etc.  Again, this is the type of comment that implies judgment.  Unless I am a very paranoid person, I sensed that you REALLY wrote (Jim, it seems like you are just venting and not looking for understanding, etc.)  Again, look at my posts.  Many ask questions and have asked the readers for advice and have thanked them for advice.

Portia:
You are factually incorrect. Actually your N friend started the IP idea in your first quote in this thread:


--- Quote ---In addition, when he would reach the peaks of his fantasies, he would begin subtle put-downs to me: "You should come out there and visit me when I go. Oh, but you are too busy with your job. That is too bad. You need to meet interesting people," etc......
--- End quote ---

I picked the idea up. Your friend gets the credit for saying that if he did. You get the credit for repeating it. I get some credit for expanding on it above (if we're all counting credits here). I just wanted you to acknowledge my input and not damn well ignore me.  :!:

PS
--- Quote ---It seemed that more people might be interested
--- End quote ---

Evidence? If they were interested, they would have joined this thread surely? You're fabricating this idea to justify your new thread.

Tokyojim:
Portia,

Forget it!

I would not like to imagine having a conversation with YOU.  (Circular and endless and..... leading nowhere)

Please do not write to me or respond to my posts.

Thank you.

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