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Sunshine:
Hi,

I posted this last night in the wrong place on the site (newbie error) so here it is.

I just found this site last  tonight and am hoping there are people here w/a similar situation as mine to help. I am looking for other people who were married at the time they met the "N" and had an affair w/the N, but have remained in their marriage and have successfully removed the N from their life.

Thanks

Sunshine

Anonymous:
Hi Sunshine and welcome.

I saw your post slipping down to the bottom, so thought I'd reply and bring it up top. I can't help you with having a similar story though.

 :D I ain't never had me an affair. Damn!!!! :D

Back to serious mode, part of your question did mention looking for cases where people have successfully removed an N from their life. I'm sure lots of people here can relate to that. I'm wondering if you ask this because you have or haven't successfully removed this N from your life? I didn't quite understand.  Anyway, I hope you get the feedback you need.

Guest

Sunshine:
Thanks for your response "Guest".  Don't ever have an affair, it will literally ruin your life! I am very close to removing the N from my life, but there is a part of me that wants to be friends w/him and that is all.  But I doubt that is possible.

Sunshine

Anonymous:
Why?

Sunshine:
I doubt that we can be friends as he always wants sex and I think he only cares about himself. How can you have a friendship when it is only one sided.

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