Competition for the craziest N Statements

[Sela]

Oh ((((((Spy))))))  ((((((Catherine))))))  (((((Everyone who's mother/father was cruel)))))

Janet said it!  Not only is what these animals have said to you beautiful, valuable, worthy and wonderful daughters appalling, but it's all


LIES!

Even the flat chested crap!  It's a lie because it indicates a lack of beauty, Spy, and you're mother is a liar and as blind as a bat!!!

 

All these nasty egg/sperm donors make me sooooooo angry!!  They don't even deserve to be called parents!!!!


To say the things they have said to small children, teens, young adults and their God given gorgeous adult children is surely a great humungus sin!!  For the hurt it injects!!!

I'm so sorry you all had to hear so much of that BS!!  It's not true!!!

I hope their tongues rot out!!!

Sela

[Hopalong]

Wowzers, hear, hear Sela!

And welcome Catherine. I don't know how children's hearts survive being stabbed with such cruel words. Even adult children. But here you are....resourceful enough to find a forum where we GET it. Welcome!

Spy, oh my.
"I will not have anyone thinking I have a flat-chested daughter" really sounds as though it could be made into a plaque--IF it's gotten laughable to you. It's so ABSURDLY, cluelessly selfish it makes me laugh (not at you, at her). I mean, it's crazy. Such a puffed-up sense of self...priceless. Awful.

(I have a sick sense of humor so I probably WOULD post it somewhere.)

Personally, I think whatever chest we got is just fine, whatever it is.  (Lord, I hate contemporary culture sometimes.)

hugs
Hops

[finding peace]

Thought of another one 

In that snide, cold, condescending voice with the chewing wasps look on her face, my mother used to say to me all the time:  “I hope you have twins just like you, then you will know what I have had to put up with – double.  Then you will really know how difficult you are.”

My response – “I hope I do too.  I would love to have kids like me, I, at least, would know how to handle them – with love and kindness.”

Needless to say, it did not go over well.  I was accused of being “mouthy” probably helped to get me that lovely label of “difficult.”

[dawn1971]

"One of these days you are going to say the wrong thing to the wrong person...its your big mouth that gets you in trouble. Learn to keep your mouth shut. No one wants to hear you talk or anything you have to say. You have diarrhea of the mouth."  This is one statement among millions-so hard to choose just one...but I am to this day a talker-I talk and talk and talk-I never did learn. I do curb my talking (for her) so she is happy with me-we only talk on the phone and I see her in person once or twice a year. I am in a critical place in my healing and reading this board is helping so much.  As I read more and more on this board I have realized I have been living with a feeling of DOOM. I have been away from my mother for years but all that she said and did to me is still with me and I desire to be free! Someone here put "the me I was meant to be"!  It is something else to know there are others who have experienced the same things! WoW. Gimmie more, gimmie more!

[Hopalong]

You got it, ((((Dawn))).

How much of your precious ear-time does this "woman" deserve, anyway?

Hops