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Need advice about incest confrontation . . .
rosencrantz:
Little boys can get erections from an early age. It's not odd or unusual. It just feels nice or funny or interesting.
Oh dear - I've just been flooded with a memory of something I saw once. Was I seeing abuse? I don't want to think about this. It was in someone else's home in another country. Anyway, the nanny was laughing about the baby's 'hardon', she 'tickled' him into it so I guess the propensity is there from birth.
Much more amusing : lethal things those little 'johns' - especially when you're trying to change a nappy and you get the full force of a wee straight in the eye!!! :wink:
R
Anonymous:
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--- Quote ---I didn't understand what a 'boner' is
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It is an "erection" . . . I couldn't believe this! :shock:
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When I was growing up 'a boner' was a guy who worked at the abbatoir!! :D :D hahahahahhah
Words change with the times, hey? Like I was always such a happy and 'gay' child.
CG
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Ishana:
I agree with Bunny and the rest...this situation calls for professional input and support, for more reasons than possible sexual abuse. It seems to me that whether or not there has been sexual abuse there has been manipulation, control and emotional abuse. Those are reasons alone to seek outside help.
Good luck. Your stepson is lucky to have people in his life who are concerned enough to try to help him figure things out.
Ishana
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