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Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
BonesMS:
At one point, this past week, Nfriend sends me an e-mail asking me to go shopping with her (at the last minute, of course). I respond with: "No. I have an appointment this evening." As I'm getting ready to leave for my appointment, she shows up at my door with: "You can go shopping with me now...right??????" Again, I respond with: "NO! I have an appointment and I'm getting ready to leave for it!" Her response, (with the blank stare and glazed eyes): "Oh-h-h-h-h! You can't go shopping with me now!" (What part of the word "No" does she NOT understand?) I didn't bother to tell her that the appointment was for a manicure and a pedicure. (I had been on a waiting list for a month and I was looking forward to having my very FIRST pedicure in my life.) When she noticed my manicure, the next day, she had to comment: "Oh-h-h-h-h! So THAT was your APPOINTMENT!" (Did I hear just a hint of sarcasm in her voice?) :roll: (Not my problem.)
Bones
JanetLG:
Bones...you don't think MY Nsister could be YOUR Nfriend, do you?
Just a thought. :shock:
Janet
changing:
Bonesy-
Two Words- Vicious Guard Dog (OK that was 3 words, but you understand my point I hope - unexpected guests, other than George Clooney pining for a date, get greeted by rows of gleaming white snapping teeth!) I used to have a house near a neighbor on a hill. She had several pair of Rottweilers who could scan the vast area from on high and come bounding down toward any potential tresspassers . Quite awe-inspiring and effective ...
Love,
Changing
Ami:
Dear Bones,
You are really funny and cute .
Ami
BonesMS:
--- Quote from: JanetLG on September 24, 2007, 02:10:47 PM ---Bones...you don't think MY Nsister could be YOUR Nfriend, do you?
Just a thought. :shock:
Janet
--- End quote ---
Who knows???????
Bones
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