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Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
BonesMS:
--- Quote from: Certain Hope on January 25, 2008, 10:17:41 PM ---
--- Quote from: BonesMS on January 25, 2008, 01:53:02 PM ---
This individual is older than I am, she knew that she was going to a restaurant and that restaurants CHARGE for their meals! I don't understand how she could simply "drop in", unannounced, and expect others to pay for her dinner plus their own when she has NEVER contributed ANYTHING in the years we have known her!
Bones
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Bones,
My guess is - - she's discovered that this technique works for her... or at least, it works enough of the time that she continues to try it.
Isn't it strange? Kinda reminds me of cleptomania, in a way... people stealing, simply for some weird thrill.
I don't think it's anything to do with the money or the food, but more about the satisfaction of the game.
I wonder how she managed to wiggle out of this one?!?
You did well to respond directly and not bail her out, I think!
Carolyn
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Thanks, Carolyn.
I'm not sure what happened after I left. She had annoyed the ENTIRE group, during our meeting, by attempting to continually change the subject to HER interests, HER toys, HER accomplishments, etc., etc. etc. and attempting to make "cute" comments that went over like a lead balloon until all of us said, simultaneously, "SHUT UP!" On top of that, whenever anyone in the group discussed a topic such as an upcoming convention nearby or someone succeeding in selling something they wrote, this Nindividual would attempt to make a dirty joke out of it until it was all I could do to restrain myself from throttling her!
Bones
BonesMS:
I just got ANOTHER e-mail from NDoofus asking to get together with me ASAP. I have not responded yet.
Bones
Certain Hope:
--- Quote from: BonesMS on January 28, 2008, 11:09:23 AM ---I just got ANOTHER e-mail from NDoofus asking to get together with me ASAP. I have not responded yet.
Bones
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An alternate translation of ASAP = As Soon As you Please :D
(((((((Bones)))))))
BonesMS:
--- Quote from: Certain Hope on January 28, 2008, 08:40:45 PM ---
--- Quote from: BonesMS on January 28, 2008, 11:09:23 AM ---I just got ANOTHER e-mail from NDoofus asking to get together with me ASAP. I have not responded yet.
Bones
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An alternate translation of ASAP = As Soon As you Please :D
(((((((Bones)))))))
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:D Thanks!!!!! :D
Bones
Hopalong:
Hi Bones,
I just read your account of your mother's monstrous behavior, and her beatings.
--- Quote ---I think she enjoyed it.
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I think she did too.
:(
I am so sorry.
I'm glad you're sharing those horrible memories and I hope you'll wind up empty of her.
You did not deserve such cruelty. EVER. In any way.
love
Hops
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