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Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
BonesMS:
Just touching base as things have been quiet on the side of NDoofus.
Bones
Certain Hope:
Hi, Bones :) It's good to read you.
Most of my Doof-i (plural of Doofus? or is it Doofusses... lol) have been quiet lately, as well.
Yay!!
Love,
Carolyn
BonesMS:
--- Quote from: Certain Hope on April 09, 2008, 08:38:47 PM ---Hi, Bones :) It's good to read you.
Most of my Doof-i (plural of Doofus? or is it Doofusses... lol) have been quiet lately, as well.
Yay!!
Love,
Carolyn
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As long as they leave us alone, things are fine. At times, I keep wondering when the next shoe is gonna drop.
Bones
Certain Hope:
--- Quote from: BonesMS on April 13, 2008, 12:26:02 PM ---
As long as they leave us alone, things are fine. At times, I keep wondering when the next shoe is gonna drop.
Bones
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Yup... other shoe or anvil, whatever the case may be. I felt like that throughout the first three years of no contact with ex-husband, but eventually they do move on, I believe, Bones. When there's absolutely no response, no feedback, they will find someone else with whom to play cat and mouse.
Bones, remember when you checked for me re: incarceration details/visitation vis my former son-in-law?
Well, he wound up getting weekend jail-tiime for his drug charges and is still a mess, sadly. But just today, my daughter finally got word that she's won full physical custody of their 4 year old daughter. But.... get this - - they still share joint legal custody. Can you imagine?! Why in the world the court thinks that man should have any say whatsoever in the education, health, and welfare of the little girl who has seen the police involved in her family life more times than... well... I dunno, it's beyond me.
Anyhow, at least there's finally a decision and hopefully he'll accept it and move on.... time will tell.
Hope your week is good.
Love,
Carolyn
debkor:
Hi Carolyn,
Well this is good news. I know my friend has full physical custody of her children and brought the court papers to school. Her ex h called the school and asked for copies of their report cards. The school refused since M had the full physical custody. Actually two of my friends so don't worry so much about the joint decisions because the judge told one all she has to do is show report cards and tell him when they are injured or sick and that can be after the fact, like stitches. It's kind of just to shut them up and let them know whats going on. And my two friends ex h's after while didn't even care to know. Just a control issue and it fades out.
Make sure you D puts those papers with the school.
Love
Deb
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