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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #7502 on: June 21, 2016, 07:02:41 AM »
https://www.reddit.com/r/JUSTNOMIL/comments/4p3buw/slagatha_and_how_she_got_kicked_out_of_our_church/

I'm reading this and I'm so sorely tempted to punch out this EVIL N!!!! :evil:

WT ACTUAL F?!?!?!?!?!?
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #7503 on: June 21, 2016, 11:18:34 AM »
https://www.reddit.com/r/JUSTNOMIL/comments/4p4sli/magda_accepted_our_out_of_court_settlement/

This N is a SOCIOPATH/PSYCHOPATH!!!!   :shock:

She should have been locked up and the key thrown away!!!!
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #7504 on: June 21, 2016, 11:42:32 AM »
https://www.reddit.com/r/JUSTNOMIL/comments/4bltvq/microwave_ovens_are_serious_business/?

Reading about this microwave stuff reminded me of some ridiculous nonsense that NDoofus did.

For years, NDoofus held onto an ancient toaster oven that was literally falling apart.  She had the door of it wired up in some kind of wonky way that just didn't function right.  If you even looked at it, the door would fall off and then she would attempt to re-wire it back on in the same wonky way.  I asked her why couldn't she just get a new toaster oven since this thing was clearly on its last legs.  It wasn't even heating up properly anymore.  She kept insisting that it was "fine".

When her mother needed to have in-home nursing care because it was no longer safe to leave an Alzheimer's patient alone anymore, NDoofus insisted that the visiting nurse use only the crappy, malfunctioning, falling-apart, toaster oven to prepare meals for her mother.  She specifically told the visiting nurse that she was NOT allowed to touch the stove!  (WTF is up with THAT?!?!?)   :?  Because NDoofus' mother was also diabetic, in addition to having Alzheimer's, she needed to eat properly.  That wonky toaster oven just was NOT cutting it when it wouldn't heat up half the time.  After all that crap with the toaster oven, one of the visiting nurses GAVE NDoofus a BRAND-NEW toaster oven, with all the bells and whistles, for Christmas!  I thought that was the nicest thing anyone could do for someone else, especially given the circumstances.  Did NDoofus appreciate that?  NOPE!!!  She threw a tantrum because she was insulted that a "lesser being" acted like an equal to her by giving her something nice!  It took me a few more years to finally understand what an N, and racist, she really was!
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #7505 on: June 21, 2016, 12:23:07 PM »
https://www.reddit.com/r/JUSTNOMIL/comments/4i54gq/the_time_my_mil_made_my_mothers_death_about_her/?

This triggered another  memory of how insensitive N's can be!

I think I mentioned this memory a few years ago or so.  I'll have to search to see if I did.  NDoofus pulled some NASTY crap on her husband within MINUTES of husband losing his Dad!  The husband of NDoofus was at his parents' house, at his Dad's bedside, as the Dad died!  The man's body wasn't even COLD yet when NDoofus is blowing up the phone at the in-laws' home DEMANDING a bunch of STUPID crap!!!
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #7506 on: June 21, 2016, 12:25:57 PM »
This is the memory that was triggered:

Thanks, Seasons.

This incident took place shortly before I learned about N-ism.  I was visiting with NDoofus one evening.  During the visit, she informed me that her husband was with his parents because husband's father had taken a turn for the worse.  (The father-in-law had been in ill health for a long time.)  At one point, during the course of the evening, the phone rang.  It was NDoofus' husband informing her that his father, (her father-in-law), had just died at home and that he will stay as long as necessary to deal with the aftermath.  I expected NDoofus to either cry, cut our visit short, tell her husband she was on her way to support him....SOMETHING APPROPRIATE!  She just acted matter-of-fact about the situation.  (It struck me as odd then but I didn't know what words to put to it.)

After she hung up the phone, she decided she wanted to watch one of her DVDs.  (My gut-instinct kept telling me that something just wasn't right about the situation but I didn't know why.)  After she chose which movie she wanted to watch, she expected me to set up her DVD player FOR her!  (Huh?!?!?)  I asked her where she keeps all the user manuals because their electronic set up is a LOT more complicated than mine and I didn't feel comfortable blindly fiddling with anything.  All I got was a blank stare and a comment that her husband normally takes care of this kind of stuff FOR her.  I pointed out that he is not available right now and asked, again, where the user manuals for their electronic equipment is kept.  Again, the blank stare.   I figured, at that point, that I was going to have to logically figure out, on my own, where the most likely place might be to store user manuals for her electronics and began to systematically search.  Instead of assisting me in the search, NDoofus gets on the phone and calls her husband at his parents' home!

I was appalled!!!!  Her husband's father had just died!  The body is still in the house and is barely cold!  And NDoofus is calling her husband, in the midst of this tragedy asking him to walk her through the DVD setup because she wants to watch a movie NOW!  Even though I was across the room from where she was standing, I could hear him yelling at her through the telephone and I did NOT blame him for his reaction!  After he bawled her out for her insensitivity, she hangs up the phone and complains that her husband was being "difficult"!  HUH?!?!?!?

If I knew then what I know now, I would have cut and run a L-O-N-G time ago!!!!!!!

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #7507 on: June 22, 2016, 05:21:26 AM »
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #7508 on: June 22, 2016, 03:04:57 PM »
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #7511 on: June 23, 2016, 12:34:21 PM »
https://www.reddit.com/r/JUSTNOMIL/comments/4phdxq/slagatha_stalks_me_for_a_while/

This is SERIOUSLY scary and, what makes it worse, the cops AIDED THE STALKER!!!!   :shock:
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #7512 on: June 24, 2016, 06:30:26 AM »
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #7513 on: June 24, 2016, 04:35:12 PM »
https://www.reddit.com/r/JUSTNOMIL/comments/4poyjy/old_relationships_baby_shower_post/

What part of the word "NO!" did this N NOT understand?!?!?!?
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