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Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
Twoapenny:
--- Quote from: BonesMS on July 23, 2018, 07:08:57 AM ---
--- Quote from: Twoapenny on July 23, 2018, 03:40:27 AM ---Hi Bonesie,
Sorry not to have checked in for a while. We just moved house so it has been crazy busy plus we were without internet for a few days. For some reason I thought you were seeing the specialist this Tuesday (tomorrow), not last week. But I'm very glad to read that everything is benign. I know getting check ups is a pain but I find they help stop me worrying when I know someone is keeping an eye out on things. I hope the biopsy area is healing now and not as uncomfortable.
As for that relative - wow. Did he really not remember that your brother had died? I seem to remember you posting about this when it originally happened and that you'd been able to block him. I do remember you saying about him calling people the N word - I hate that word! Why did he phone, was he just drunk and rambling? Sometimes technology has its downsides. I think in the days when people could only communicate by letter and it was delivered on horse back they didn't have to deal with this kind of nonsense.
I hope he leaves you alone now and I'm very glad to hear that the lump isn't dangerous xx
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Thanks, Tupp!
I was so relieved when the nurse practitioner told me it's benign that I started crying in the doctor's office. I'm glad they are keeping an eye on it and know what they're talking about as opposed to the MEN in the G.P.'s office. (Long story with that!)
Yeah, Cousin JackA$$ royally pissed me off with his bloody bull$hit! He's as bad as that tangerine wankmaggot we're stuck with until the next elections! At one point, during that STUPID phone call, he attempted to invite himself to my doorstep! (How about F**K NO, drunken jizztrumpet MORON?!?!?) He spouted off my address, (that I NEVER gave him), so I knew he had done a Google search on me. If he's DUMBA$$ enough to turn up on my doorstep unwanted, unannounced and UNINVITED, he will be dealing with the local constabulary when I report his drunken A$$ for TRESPASSING!!!
I'll be quoting David Gerrold....GET OFF MY LAWN!!!!!!
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Oh Bones, tangerine wankmaggot! I spat out my tea, lol, that needs to go on a T shirt or something! That's so funny I'm crying :)
I'm glad the nurse was/is reassuring. I've felt for a long time now that a lot of doctors could really do with some sort of interpreter when talking to patients - someone who can explain the necessary medical stuff but do it in a caring, practical manner. Some of the people I've met with my son just don't have that skill and it does make the experience much harder to deal with (and it's hard enough as it is). So I'm glad the nurse was good and I think tears of relief are very natural in times like this.
As for your cousin, well, what a doofus. I hope he leaves you alone now, although your insults are so funny I'm half hoping you get a chance to use them on him lol. And yes, the family thing is so true, of people in general, I think - you want the ones that are there for you, good and bad, because they enjoy your company and value you as a person, not because of what they can get out of you or what kind of cushion you provide for all of their issues. I get that kind of acceptance from you guys on here and I value that so much, I can't tell you :) xx
BonesMS:
--- Quote from: Twoapenny on July 25, 2018, 10:02:03 AM ---
--- Quote from: BonesMS on July 23, 2018, 07:08:57 AM ---
--- Quote from: Twoapenny on July 23, 2018, 03:40:27 AM ---Hi Bonesie,
Sorry not to have checked in for a while. We just moved house so it has been crazy busy plus we were without internet for a few days. For some reason I thought you were seeing the specialist this Tuesday (tomorrow), not last week. But I'm very glad to read that everything is benign. I know getting check ups is a pain but I find they help stop me worrying when I know someone is keeping an eye out on things. I hope the biopsy area is healing now and not as uncomfortable.
As for that relative - wow. Did he really not remember that your brother had died? I seem to remember you posting about this when it originally happened and that you'd been able to block him. I do remember you saying about him calling people the N word - I hate that word! Why did he phone, was he just drunk and rambling? Sometimes technology has its downsides. I think in the days when people could only communicate by letter and it was delivered on horse back they didn't have to deal with this kind of nonsense.
I hope he leaves you alone now and I'm very glad to hear that the lump isn't dangerous xx
--- End quote ---
Thanks, Tupp!
I was so relieved when the nurse practitioner told me it's benign that I started crying in the doctor's office. I'm glad they are keeping an eye on it and know what they're talking about as opposed to the MEN in the G.P.'s office. (Long story with that!)
Yeah, Cousin JackA$$ royally pissed me off with his bloody bull$hit! He's as bad as that tangerine wankmaggot we're stuck with until the next elections! At one point, during that STUPID phone call, he attempted to invite himself to my doorstep! (How about F**K NO, drunken jizztrumpet MORON?!?!?) He spouted off my address, (that I NEVER gave him), so I knew he had done a Google search on me. If he's DUMBA$$ enough to turn up on my doorstep unwanted, unannounced and UNINVITED, he will be dealing with the local constabulary when I report his drunken A$$ for TRESPASSING!!!
I'll be quoting David Gerrold....GET OFF MY LAWN!!!!!!
--- End quote ---
Oh Bones, tangerine wankmaggot! I spat out my tea, lol, that needs to go on a T shirt or something! That's so funny I'm crying :)
I'm glad the nurse was/is reassuring. I've felt for a long time now that a lot of doctors could really do with some sort of interpreter when talking to patients - someone who can explain the necessary medical stuff but do it in a caring, practical manner. Some of the people I've met with my son just don't have that skill and it does make the experience much harder to deal with (and it's hard enough as it is). So I'm glad the nurse was good and I think tears of relief are very natural in times like this.
As for your cousin, well, what a doofus. I hope he leaves you alone now, although your insults are so funny I'm half hoping you get a chance to use them on him lol. And yes, the family thing is so true, of people in general, I think - you want the ones that are there for you, good and bad, because they enjoy your company and value you as a person, not because of what they can get out of you or what kind of cushion you provide for all of their issues. I get that kind of acceptance from you guys on here and I value that so much, I can't tell you :) xx
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Thanks, Tupp! xx
I've reached the point that doofuses like Cousin JackA$$ et al are NOT considered family and they are too stupid to understand insults thrown directly in their faces. If JackA$$ shows up, he'll get a rude awakening and a clear message that he is NOT welcome here!
Twoapenny:
How are you doing, Bones? I've been thinking about you. I hope the jackass cousin didn't cause any more problems. We are seeing so many cute cats when we're out and about, nine on the way home from town this evening, all friendly and wanting a bit of a fuss. I think I need to make up some sort of kitty showreel or something :) lol xx
BonesMS:
--- Quote from: Twoapenny on August 31, 2018, 05:49:28 PM ---How are you doing, Bones? I've been thinking about you. I hope the jackass cousin didn't cause any more problems. We are seeing so many cute cats when we're out and about, nine on the way home from town this evening, all friendly and wanting a bit of a fuss. I think I need to make up some sort of kitty showreel or something :) lol xx
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I'm taking things one day at a time.
I'd LOVE to see pictures of those Fur Babies!!!!!!
Twoapenny:
--- Quote from: BonesMS on September 01, 2018, 04:33:22 AM ---
--- Quote from: Twoapenny on August 31, 2018, 05:49:28 PM ---How are you doing, Bones? I've been thinking about you. I hope the jackass cousin didn't cause any more problems. We are seeing so many cute cats when we're out and about, nine on the way home from town this evening, all friendly and wanting a bit of a fuss. I think I need to make up some sort of kitty showreel or something :) lol xx
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I'm taking things one day at a time.
I'd LOVE to see pictures of those Fur Babies!!!!!!
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One day at a time sounds like a good approach, Bonesie :) I will see if I can start snapping pics of the cute kitties and load them on here somehow. There is one we've christened the subway cat as he hangs around the underpass that leads to the shop, we've a pure white one called the snow cat, a long legged grey one that we've imaginatively titled 'Long Legs Grey Boy' and a stripy one that sleeps in the walnut tree with his legs hanging down either side of the branches :) I will have to try and sneak up on them when they're napping and get some pictures :) xx
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